Severof
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Good morning
My first post here and I was looking for some advice regarding what has just happened to me at my golf club. Background being that I am a full 7 day member of a decent, if not a little on the corporate side golf club in the UK. I will refrain from mentioning it's name until I know how this situation pans out. The Fees are 5k plus a year and I am a member there with my 13 yr old son, a decent young golfer with a 12 hcap. We have been there 2 years now.
Our Club run an order of Merit Event every year, whereby you can enter 10 seperate events, that run from March to October. These are a mix of Stford and Medal, inc the 2 day club championship and you are awarded points for each event, should you finish in the top 10 of any of those. ( 10 points for first down to one point for 10th ) The points are accumulated and displayed for members to see on various screens throughout the club, where the current top 10 members are displayed on a rolling basis. These 10 events have to be played from the white tees no matter your age or sex. We have currently played 5 of the events, are half way through this series and the prize for 1st at the end is over £2500 , £1500 for 2nd and £1000 for 3rd. There are around 600 members at our club and around 120 have entered the OOM this year. To enter them you have to be a 7 day member, have entered in at least 10 scorecards last year including at least 4 competitions. We have so far entered all this year, and as far as I am aware, my son is the only junior to have entered each of the 5 events thus far.
2 weeks ago after an 8th place finish in event 5, my 13yr old moved one point ahead at the top of the leaderboard. He has finished 41st, 3rd, 7th, 8th and 8th in the 5 events this year. Only once has he beaten his handicap, finishing with scores of 28points, Net 70, Net 72, 34points and a net 73. I have always greeted him at the end of each round on the 18th, and the members he has played with so far have all been very complementary of his game and behaviour on each event he has played in so far, and were full of encouragement for him. For a fairly shy lad this has given him a real spring in his step around the place, with many members and staff now knowing his name and speaking to him, unlike before. However, his name sat proudly on top of the leaderboard for just one day.
The day after he moved to the top spot I received an email from the events co-ordinator at the club stating that my son was unable to play in any of the remaining events. He also showed an extract from the clubs competion charter showing that 5 day members and juniors were unable to enter in club board and Order of Merit events. ( I have a copy of the competition charter dated the 21/5/24 , which was 3 months and 3 events into this series, which only shows that 5 day members are unable to enter ) . The junior part had clearly just been added this week.
I have professionally replied to the club with my feelings regarding this and also copied in the golf director ( We have no committe ) . I have received an out of office automated reply from him stating he will be back in the office tomorrow.
This has really knocked my lad back. A place he loved to go and now he has ill feelings towards it. I am pretty sure that the club has probably given in to a few of the more powerful members who do not like the fact a kid is leading and probably feel so proud of themselves to have him ousted. I'm trying to keep my temper with it at the moment but am pretty sure they have breached not only R&A rules regarding the changing of competition rules mid event, but also the Equality Act regarding Children and membership of clubs.
My apologies for the long speil. I have electronic trails of all emails, club policies and results dating back to the start of the first event in March to show what they have done is underhand to say the least. So, before an upcoming meeting with the director, I wondered if anyone had any opinion or advice for me before I spoke in person with them.
Many thanks and regards. SR22
My first post here and I was looking for some advice regarding what has just happened to me at my golf club. Background being that I am a full 7 day member of a decent, if not a little on the corporate side golf club in the UK. I will refrain from mentioning it's name until I know how this situation pans out. The Fees are 5k plus a year and I am a member there with my 13 yr old son, a decent young golfer with a 12 hcap. We have been there 2 years now.
Our Club run an order of Merit Event every year, whereby you can enter 10 seperate events, that run from March to October. These are a mix of Stford and Medal, inc the 2 day club championship and you are awarded points for each event, should you finish in the top 10 of any of those. ( 10 points for first down to one point for 10th ) The points are accumulated and displayed for members to see on various screens throughout the club, where the current top 10 members are displayed on a rolling basis. These 10 events have to be played from the white tees no matter your age or sex. We have currently played 5 of the events, are half way through this series and the prize for 1st at the end is over £2500 , £1500 for 2nd and £1000 for 3rd. There are around 600 members at our club and around 120 have entered the OOM this year. To enter them you have to be a 7 day member, have entered in at least 10 scorecards last year including at least 4 competitions. We have so far entered all this year, and as far as I am aware, my son is the only junior to have entered each of the 5 events thus far.
2 weeks ago after an 8th place finish in event 5, my 13yr old moved one point ahead at the top of the leaderboard. He has finished 41st, 3rd, 7th, 8th and 8th in the 5 events this year. Only once has he beaten his handicap, finishing with scores of 28points, Net 70, Net 72, 34points and a net 73. I have always greeted him at the end of each round on the 18th, and the members he has played with so far have all been very complementary of his game and behaviour on each event he has played in so far, and were full of encouragement for him. For a fairly shy lad this has given him a real spring in his step around the place, with many members and staff now knowing his name and speaking to him, unlike before. However, his name sat proudly on top of the leaderboard for just one day.
The day after he moved to the top spot I received an email from the events co-ordinator at the club stating that my son was unable to play in any of the remaining events. He also showed an extract from the clubs competion charter showing that 5 day members and juniors were unable to enter in club board and Order of Merit events. ( I have a copy of the competition charter dated the 21/5/24 , which was 3 months and 3 events into this series, which only shows that 5 day members are unable to enter ) . The junior part had clearly just been added this week.
I have professionally replied to the club with my feelings regarding this and also copied in the golf director ( We have no committe ) . I have received an out of office automated reply from him stating he will be back in the office tomorrow.
This has really knocked my lad back. A place he loved to go and now he has ill feelings towards it. I am pretty sure that the club has probably given in to a few of the more powerful members who do not like the fact a kid is leading and probably feel so proud of themselves to have him ousted. I'm trying to keep my temper with it at the moment but am pretty sure they have breached not only R&A rules regarding the changing of competition rules mid event, but also the Equality Act regarding Children and membership of clubs.
My apologies for the long speil. I have electronic trails of all emails, club policies and results dating back to the start of the first event in March to show what they have done is underhand to say the least. So, before an upcoming meeting with the director, I wondered if anyone had any opinion or advice for me before I spoke in person with them.
Many thanks and regards. SR22
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