Tipping Etiquette

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What if the barber gives you great service and you have some quality chat whilst he is cutting your hair? The product is either the meal or hair cut and the wages for waiter/barber are factored into the cost of the product, so just as much reason to tip one as the other.

I quite like my 30 mins of peace whilst getting a hair cut so don’t really engage in chat that much, but I go to the same person all of the time and he knows that so I generally round up and give him the change, which is only and extra pound
I just see it as one haircut. If he talks to me then I talk back, if he doesn't then I'll happily sit there in silence, it really doesn't bother me either way. Certainly don't feel I'd want to pay extra for him to talk to me.
 

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I don't get the food delivered. In these current Covid times you are basically taking food from someone who is another link in the chain and has potentially handled money from people who may unknowingly have the virus. If we want anything from a takeaway, I go and collect it myself. There are enough in my area close enough to make this practical. I'm not taking any chances with my families health.
I was collecting a mcdonald's once and was told to park up and wait. I witnessed a delivery driver get out of his car holding his empty delivery bag in front of him with the lid open. What I saw next has ensured I will never use these companies...... The Dirty git, whilst walking across the car park spat over the bag. I don't mean spat directly on the bag but fired his spit over the top. How much spray would have landed inside the bag!!! ?
 

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I was collecting a mcdonald's once and was told to park up and wait. I witnessed a delivery driver get out of his car holding his empty delivery bag in front of him with the lid open. What I saw next has ensured I will never use these companies...... The Dirty git, whilst walking across the car park spat over the bag. I don't mean spat directly on the bag but fired his spit over the top. How much spray would have landed inside the bag!!! ?
And that's my point. By using the delivery drivers we are adding a chain into the process of someone who is rushing around like mad trying to get the deliveries in on time. It's going to happen that people will cut corners, disobey the rules, not care. It's a chance I'm not willing to take.
 

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And that's my point. By using the delivery drivers we are adding a chain into the process of someone who is rushing around like mad trying to get the deliveries in on time. It's going to happen that people will cut corners, disobey the rules, not care. It's a chance I'm not willing to take.

What about the restaurant staff who may not wash their hands? Cough in the food etc?
 

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I was collecting a mcdonald's once and was told to park up and wait. I witnessed a delivery driver get out of his car holding his empty delivery bag in front of him with the lid open. What I saw next has ensured I will never use these companies...... The Dirty git, whilst walking across the car park spat over the bag. I don't mean spat directly on the bag but fired his spit over the top. How much spray would have landed inside the bag!!! ?

Guess that's what happens when you don't tip the staff and treat them bad ?
 

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In this modern age of Just Eat and Deliveroo etc, what is the tipping etiquette?

A couple of the local takeaways deliver, but they're the old school sort where the delivery driver takes the whole payment for the order, so rounding to the nearest £5 or £10 is easy.

With the pay-in-app sort of deliveries do you normally tip in app (assumes you will get decent service and the deliverer actually gets it), tip the deliverer a couple of quid (not sure I have a few quid in cash these days), or just go with the delivery charge?

One thing just eat and deliveroo have I didn't know

Gift vouchers

Just got a couple as a gift one for each

Tonight's and next weekends dinner sorted

Tip using the app for deliveroo just because no cash but I'll getcash for next week
 

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Before we get down to tipping, a little background on American currency.

It's been many decades since the American treasury printed $1000 and $500 bills. I think you call them "notes.'
Our largest denomination bill or note has been $100 for a long time now.

Since then, inflation has reduced the value of $100 quite a bit,
but despite that, the policy on printing larger bills has not changed.

Essentially, the American government does it's best Orwellian "Big Brother" imitation
to discourage the use of untraceable cash in all transactions.
I don't know whether the UK does the same or not.
Basically, cash is hardly used at all any more in America.

Thus, the American credit card is used NOT so much to charge big ticket items
but for ordinary every day transactions. Walking around with pockets stuffed with currency is just too inconvenient,
not to mention potentially dangerous.
I can't remember the last time I paid any interest on my cards.
I just pay them off when the bill arrives.

Thus, when I visited the UK, I obviously had some pounds sterling currency on my person,
but I figured that I'd mostly use my credit cards, which I knew would be good there as well.

Now we finally get down to tipping.

When we paid for a meal with a credit card, the credit bill didn't have any place to write in the gratuity
for the waiter or waitress. It was impossible to tip with a credit card. I had to use cash for that.

EVERY American restaurant brings you a credit card bill with an empty space on it for the customer to write in the tip.
It used to be a customary 15% for a long time, but for the past couple of decades, it's been 20%.
Thus, if my wife and I spent, to simply round things off, one hundred pounds on dinner and drinks,
I had to have a twenty pound note to leave on the table for the waiter. If I didn't have cash with me, I couldn't tip with the credit card.

Has that practice finally changed since I was last there?
Even if you don't have a tipping culture, I'm sure the wait staff still expects the fat American tourists to tip.
 

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@Ye Olde Boomer a few things here. Many restaurants will add a service charge to your bill automatically, ie a tip. This means no extra tip is necessary. If they do add the service charge then the option to add a tip via card doesn't come up.

If you want to add a tip, mention it the waiter as they bring the card machine across. They will add the amount at that point, before the machine is passed to you to input your code.

Equally, a tip isn't compulsory over here. No one is going to chase you down the road if you don't tip 😄. Tip, don't tip, either is fine.
 

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YOB, my grief with tipping, or should I say service charge is it is now accepted that there will be a service charge, whether the service is rammel or very good. Again a service charge is usually a percentage of the total meal. Why? A steak costs £20 and a chip butty costs £5. The waiter still does the same amount of trips to the table but you pay more for the steak delivery. Why? I get a lift to the restaurant on a bus. Do I tip the driver.
I don’t mind tipping if the service is good but for it to be Accepted that it’s the norm that a percentage of your meal cost is topping up the bill has never been right in my eyes.

PS, a PP was telling me that his Missis had an afternoon Tea up the Shard with their daughter. They asked for half the sandwiches to not have butter on them. They all arrived with butter. They asked for a glass of water. It never came. At the end the bill came with a hefty service charge. Basically they said “ we’re not paying it” the manager was called over and he asked why. Again he was not impressed. She said “ if you paid as much attention to service as you did the complaint there would be no problems. They got poor service and yet they were expected to tip.
 

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@Ye Olde Boomer a few things here. Many restaurants will add a service charge to your bill automatically, ie a tip. This means no extra tip is necessary. If they do add the service charge then the option to add a tip via card doesn't come up.

If you want to add a tip, mention it the waiter as they bring the card machine across. They will add the amount at that point, before the machine is passed to you to input your code.

Equally, a tip isn't compulsory over here. No one is going to chase you down the road if you don't tip 😄. Tip, don't tip, either is fine.
Might explain the fewer smiles on English wait staff.:(
All kidding aside, the waitresses at least are often more pleasant than on the continent.
The waiters not so much.

American wait staff can be overbearing.
You can't leave because they keep refilling your coffee cup!
That's free in America.
 
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