SwingsitlikeHogan
Major Champion
Started to read this and was about to reply then noticed we'd racked up 8 pages so guess there might be some sub-discussion going on now (God I do hope so for 8 pages - but apologies as I haven't the time or inclination to read 'em all )
So purely in answer to the OP - Yes, I think you were completely right and that you handled it very diplomatically - he's the numpty for having copped the hump.
Yes - that was indeed what my OP was about - pulling up a FC on what he did with a rake in a 'major' club competition.