PJ87
Journeyman Pro
You may have already made your mind up but I wouldn't rush to Disney with kids aged 4. They can be long days there, it can be overwhelming. Hanging on a few years wouldn't be a bad move. It's a fabulous place, but the afternoon and evening sees a lot of tearful kids and fractious parents.
Maybe leave your kids with family and just go with your wife
Lol already booked I'm afraid , along with the Disney cruise in August lol parents pushing to take the grandkids