Random Irritations

[Slab]

Bit of an update.
Knock on the door and it’s the photographer with his daughter.
He has a bouquet for the wife and a bottle of whiskey for me.
Turns out he sent the same message to his niece and his daughter.
His daughter read it this morning and went straight to him and explained it was inappropriate.
He was mortified and came to apologise and explain what he wanted was a few friends and drinks and take some nice pics of the girls in nice dresses etc.
Maybe some more raunchy ones but nothing rude and it would be the girls choices what to wear and how much to show and we would all be invited as well.

All very innocent if a bit stupid on his part.

We had a chat and he is going to retire and do photography full time/as much as he can.

We discussed it and he thinks weddings and christening is the best route to take.

I didn’t have the heart to tell him he is rubbish.

So alls well now and Lucifer you can stand your man down

Glad his error of message has been cleared up
Doing weddings etc is a tough gig to crack, even more so since the world went digital. Long gone are the days you can just had over a few dozen pics in an album (I’m sure he’ll know this)

He mustn’t underestimate how many ppl book a photographer for those kind of days based more on personalities/behaviour/instantly building relationships. Lots of ppl can knock up decent pictures but lots would be unable to bond/communicate with 100 guests and in particular the couple

He might also consider corporate work for something a bit less time critical and a lot less emotional

 

[Slime]

Glad his error of message has been cleared up
Doing weddings etc is a tough gig to crack, even more so since the world went digital. Long gone are the days you can just had over a few dozen pics in an album (I’m sure he’ll know this)

He mustn’t underestimate how many ppl book a photographer for those kind of days based more on personalities/behaviour/instantly building relationships. Lots of ppl can knock up decent pictures but lots would be unable to bond/communicate with 100 guests and in particular the couple

He might also consider corporate work for something a bit less time critical and a lot less emotional

The problem with weddings is that you only get one shot at it.
Get it wrong and the newly weds are disappointed for life as they can't be re-done.
Maybe suggest that he'd be better off photographing, for instance, pets.
Pet photography is quite a large market and a photo shoot can always be re-done on another day.

 

[Slab]

The problem with weddings is that you only get one shot at it.
Get it wrong and the newly weds are disappointed for life as they can't be re-done.
Maybe suggest that he'd be better off photographing, for instance, pets.
Pet photography is quite a large market and a photo shoot can always be re-done on another day.

Yup, and most pets are happy to pose for glam shots

 

[Neilds]

Yup, and most pets are happy to pose for glam shots

I'm sure there's a puppy joke in there somewhere

 

[Hobbit]

Yup, and most pets are happy to pose for glam shots

I can’t ‘picture’ a pit bull in a basque

 

[Bazz]

I think my suggestions would like get you charged with assault !

If that were my daughters I’d be absolutely fuming. But then I’m not the most sensible person when it comes to people upsetting my flower and kids. People can insult me all they want I literally don’t care, but anything toward those I love I can’t seem to remain calm.

I guess all you can do is msg him telling him to go have a word with himself and about his behaviour being inappropriate. The biggest thing is the age of your girls if they were young then there’s definitely a legal standpoint.

Good luck with this one mate, I don’t envy you!

If you need someone to do bad things and make him disappear I know a guy that’s good with weapons and bury a body in the Arctic where it won’t be found

Edit: I should add this is why I’m not a good person my first instinct is to be defensive of my kids and not be as balanced as you. So hopefully you find a way to do this much more sensibly than I would.

I saw glamour modelling and 3 daughters and immediately started the car to pick Irip up and go around his mates house. Glad it seems like it's got sorted.

 

[Lucifer MorningStar]

I saw glamour modelling and 3 daughters and immediately started the car to pick Irip up and go around his mates house. Glad it seems like it's got sorted.

At least it wasn’t just me

I had the rifle oiled, magazine loaded and zeroed for a 600m shoot. Can’t be caught for something close if you’re nearly half a mile away the time With an alibi

At least I now know you’d have been out getaway driver.

 

[Bazz]

At least it wasn’t just me

I had the rifle oiled, magazine loaded and zeroed for a 600m shoot. Can’t be caught for something close if you’re nearly half away the time With an alibi

At least I now know you’d have been out getaway driver.

I've played a lot of Grand Theft Auto, seems easy enough.

 

[Pants]

I can’t ‘picture’ a pit bull in a basque

Borrow one from Mrs H Brian and take a selfie. That will be near enough

 

[larmen]

The problem with weddings is that you only get one shot at it.
Get it wrong and the newly weds are disappointed for life as they can't be re-done.
Maybe suggest that he'd be better off photographing, for instance, pets.
Pet photography is quite a large market and a photo shoot can always be re-done on another day.

I think the issue with wedding photography is that ‘everyone’ can replicate the shot the photographer takes with a smartphone WHEN the photographer is there, arranging stuff, managing people, getting the right light conditions, … . The technical bit is secondary these days, especially when you take many shots in bracketing mode.
So you look at their pictures and your friends snaps, and the professional doesn’t look a couple of thousand pounds better.
BUT if the professional wouldn’t be there none of those would look any good either.

A friend of mine who is really good hobby photographer spends his weekend carrying secondary flashes and stuff for a professional.