SwingsitlikeHogan
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It is important to share your fears for your girlfriend as you’ll then find that there are folks out there who really understand and so can support you as they too have been through it and so get your fears more deeply and personally than you might imagine.Cheers, Bri.
I know I have a love hate thing going on with this forum at times but it’s good to have somewhere removed from my family and other friends to just vent little things like this.
As things are the surgery seems to indicate good clear margins and that will be a great relief for her and also yourself. If it’s BC she’ll probably have a BC nurse assigned. Encourage her to speak with that nurse about any questions or concerns - don’t worry about asking too much - it’s what they are employed to do.
Also the Breast Cancer Now Helpline is manned by very experienced BC nurses and they will answer her questions if she doesn’t have a BC Nurse or would like a separate view - and they’ll happily talk through with you any questions you might have if your gfriend is not sure, or you don’t want to ask her. Best wishes to you both.