Quick change in the car thenEveryone else who has been there all day will be suited and booted, don’t want to be that guy who turns up at a wedding looking like he’s come from the local working men’s club
. Or you could be the cool guy who creates his own path.........yeah, the first one 
Wear a shirt and tie with shorts and wellies. Say you were trying subvert the genre of 'festival wedding'.Everyone else who has been there all day will be suited and booted, don’t want to be that guy who turns up at a wedding looking like he’s come from the local working men’s club
I was at a wedding a few years ago when it was 30 odd degrees, it was Southampton, not up here. Anyway, we were about to start eating and I went to take my jacket off. My wife stared daggers and muttered that no one else had taken their jacket off. She did this whilst wearing a light summer dress. I asked if she would like to wear the jacket and see how it went. She declined the offer, the jacket came off. There was a mini ripple of jacket removal on the tables just around us. I'd like to claim to be a rebel but I was just sweating too much
We're led to believe that bare-chestedness is the norm for men in your region. Your wife should have been thrilled you kept your shirt on.I was at a wedding a few years ago when it was 30 odd degrees, it was Southampton, not up here. Anyway, we were about to start eating and I went to take my jacket off. My wife stared daggers and muttered that no one else had taken their jacket off. She did this whilst wearing a light summer dress. I asked if she would like to wear the jacket and see how it went. She declined the offer, the jacket came off. There was a mini ripple of jacket removal on the tables just around us. I'd like to claim to be a rebel but I was just sweating too much
The etiquette of this is plain nonsense. Dress to be comfortable. Having a red and sweating face is not a good look, it certainly isn't smart.
Everyone else who has been there all day will be suited and booted, don’t want to be that guy who turns up at a wedding looking like he’s come from the local working men’s club
You can only go bare chested if you are a minimum of 18 stone, most of it being created by beer. I don't qualify I'm afraid, I would be mocked mercilessly for my lack of belly
If in doubt ask yourself 'what would James Bond wear' and you won't go far wrong
I’ll add. Since the question you ask is essentially spiritual in nature, I have found strength and understanding in a little book by Harold Kushner When Bad Things Happen to Good People.
). But I think it can help those having no spiritual beliefs whatsoever because we have all had occasion to ask the same question as you - and we (especially those of us of having a religious spiritual belief) have all struggled to come to terms with it and find an answer that can be at least be of some help in our times of upset.
I was at a wedding a few years ago when it was 30 odd degrees, it was Southampton, not up here. Anyway, we were about to start eating and I went to take my jacket off. My wife stared daggers and muttered that no one else had taken their jacket off. She did this whilst wearing a light summer dress. I asked if she would like to wear the jacket and see how it went. She declined the offer, the jacket came off. There was a mini ripple of jacket removal on the tables just around us. I'd like to claim to be a rebel but I was just sweating too much
The etiquette of this is plain nonsense. Dress to be comfortable. Having a red and sweating face is not a good look, it certainly isn't smart.
did you turn it off and back on again?The aspect ratio on my IPTV was out last night and I couldn’t see how to change it
