harpo_72
Journeyman Pro
Sorry buddy - I'm either very dim or completely missing what you are getting at. If you want to play proper competitions for money then turn pro and go for it - good luck. That's what the pro game is there for. Otherwise stay amateur. Our game is not for the winning of pots of money it's for the fun of it. And success brings satisfaction and pride - but not money.
Have you read much about Gary Wolsteneholme? He could have been a very successful pro golfer but stayed amateur - for the love of the game and less stress - and he had a decent job. He was well +++ handicap and had a fantastic and i am sure vey fulfilling amateur career. Not sure why you think having a plus handicap makes amateur golf less fulfilling or enjoyable.
I think he tried his hand at the senior pro tour but not sure what success he is having or whether indeed he is still giving it a serious go.
[Note from GW website - 2013 European Senior Tour OoM - currently 13th with earnings of €72,929]
Do you play for side bets? I only do if its suggested by someone else. I have also had plenty of run ins with guys who want to play for £50 a side but want to play off their handicap and not scratch. Yet when you suggest that they can have their handicap and play for pride they are not interested. That is the state of the amature game...