Swinglowandslow
Well-known member
If you don't define any rules how do you know what the game is?
There must be scores of games which involve a ball and a stick of sorts. How would you know where to start, what to do, how do you decide a winner (if any), when do you finish, is the stick used to move the ball or for measuring ....?
What exactly are you saying you want?
It seems you are limiting the playing of the game to scenarios where, as you say, " how do you decide a winner"
This game can be played without their having to be a "winner".
Two mates go out and play a course, say, to try out shots, or new techniques , or just to see how they generally fare.
So they might have a little money on it , playing to their rules of the day, say.
E.g. Hit a shot, find the ball is lost (?), so OK to drop on the nearby fairway.
This isn't the strict rules of golf , of course, but surely, you are not maintaining that social games like that shouldn't be played.?
In competitions, rules of golf. Otherwise, play as you agree and find suitable to your enjoyment.
It doesn't have to be one OR the other.