SocketRocket
Ryder Cup Winner
Like a Bank, Hmmm. One where you have no mortgage or loans, on the contrary you have deposited a substantial amount of money in it. You are not employed by them rather the employees rely on your business for their wages and are a bit desperate on who will pay them if you leave. Rather than pay you interest you have to pay it to customers who have no money and permanent overdrafts. It's a strange type of Bank in that it insists that if you stay with them you cannot invest your money with any other Banks unless they arrange it for you on terms that suit them. When you explain you would like to leave the Bank the Manager says he wont discuss it with you until you allow your neighbor to push his wheely bin around the back of your house, even though you are quite happy for him to do it anyway but when you explain that he says he doesn't believe you. I don't think they have much interest in my football team but if they did it would probably never get out of the changing rooms unless their boots conformed to a few hundred regulations on climate change. Not exactly a 'Listening Bank' Eh!There are far FAR too many intertwined agencies for this to be simplified into a simple analogy. There are far too many serious possible repercussions to leaving that aren't covered at all in the golf club example.
It's probably more like trying to leave a bank that you've got your mortgage, current, savings, loan, credit card, insurance, overdraft etc with. Oh, and you work for the bank. As does your other half, and your kids. And all your friends. And the bank sponsors your football team  And the guy handling your leaving doesn't appear to know what he's doing. And his boss doesn't actually want you to leave. And the bank you're going to is run by a tiny handed, orange sociopath. Etc etc etc 