PJ87
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@pauljames87 it's a psychological thing, your own make up. My mum, ex teacher, was ready to retire and took early retirement at 60. Loved it, never missed it. Still meets up with ex colleagues, all retired as well now, but never felt the urge to teach again.
My FiL was dragged kicking and screaming into retirement. Fought it, kept 'dropping in'. He is 86, would still work now if he could.
I think some people judge themselves by their work and if they don't work then what are they? Personally, I doff my cap to anyone who tells me they are retired, I admire them . You won't change your mums thought process I suspect, it's ingrained
She's going to put herself in an early grave!
My dad on the other hand was going to retire November 2020
When COVID hit we sat him down and said can you afford to go now? Yes . Don't be a hero .. retire. He wasn't in best of health so we were worried him going into work
He did and hasn't worked since
He's enjoying being grandad to his 4 grandkids