Secret affair 😜

[Tashyboy]

As much as I wouldn’t get involved. There’s a difference between taking someone to a funeral and then sitting in a car whilst the service goes on and taking someone to a funeral and actually going to the service and singing the old wooden cross.

 

[Scoobiesnax]

Plot twist - The wife is/was having an affair too.

Mental situation - could turn nasty! Hell of a dilemma.

 

[Tashyboy]

Ave a feeling I know the guy. Could you send me details of the funeral.

 

[SteveW86]

Plot twist - The wife is/was having an affair too.

Mental situation - could turn nasty! Hell of a dilemma.

With the same lady? That would be a plot twist

 

[Ye Olde Boomer]

I don't see it being about either an affair or a funeral.

I just see it about a friend needing a ride.

 

[Reemul]

I don't see it being about either an affair or a funeral.

I just see it about a friend needing a ride.

Yeah friend can get herself there in a taxi really or a bus or a bike

 

[Ye Olde Boomer]

Yeah friend can get herself there in a taxi really or a bus or a bike

A bit harsh but true.

 

[ADB]

We don’t know the whole story - was she a work colleague or friend of the family for years, so going to the funeral would be normal even if there was no affair?

If there was no obvious link then her turning up as a ‘stranger’ may be suspect.

 

[williamalex1]

Update. The funeral is tomorrow, fortunately for my wife the lady is now travelling there with an ex work colleague, phew!!

 

[Beezerk]

We need you to drive up and see if it kicks off

 

[williamalex1]

We need you to drive up and see if it kicks off

I wonder if they'll be a live video link

 

[Ye Olde Boomer]

I am honestly surprised to see how socially conservative this forum is.
It's almost like a Vicar's golf forum.

We recently got a memo from staff reminding me that I should choose my words
as though my mother and both grandmothers have arisen like Lazarus
and are monitoring my every post on this forum.

I have to make a last moment edit of virtually everything that I write.

That's perfectly fine, of course.
I'm the foreigner, and it's your forum.
I just find it surprising.

 

[nickjdavis]

If many of us revealed our "true selves" via what we wrote then it may not reflect well on the public image of the Golf Monthly magazine or its publishers.

I too often moderate what i write, or even write it, consider moderating it and then just delete it.

 

[Reemul]

If many of us revealed our "true selves" via what we wrote then it may not reflect well on the public image of the Golf Monthly magazine or its publishers.

I too often moderate what i write, or even write it, consider moderating it and then just delete it.

Yeah same here, I am not averse to a few chosen swear words here and there but is British are bit stuff and correct at times as well, not a surprise there. If you wish to see the hidden underneath of the british people try the football topic

 

[HomerJSimpson]

On a slight tangent, although like everyone else I am still desperate to know how the funeral and wake plays out, but four ladies in work have confided to HID (no idea why everyone uses her as a shoulder to cry on but she is a brilliant people person so maybe that answer is obvious) that their husbands have been having affairs which they have now found out about. All are mid-late 50's and married for 20+ years except one who was engaged (her first husband passed away) and so she now has an ex-fiancee and all have separated as a result. Seems a rather unusual thing to happen to so many in one work place (lots of different charities in one hub so not all working directly for the same organisation) after so long so maybe the OP case wasn't so strange

 

[williamalex1]

Final update - seeming he had worked in banking sector and there were quite a few unattached ladies there, no incidents reported.
He's made his last deposit/withdrawal.

 

[Tashyboy]

I am honestly surprised to see how socially conservative this forum is.
It's almost like a Vicar's golf forum.

We recently got a memo from staff reminding me that I should choose my words
as though my mother and both grandmothers have arisen like Lazarus
and are monitoring my every post on this forum.

I have to make a last moment edit of virtually everything that I write.

That's perfectly fine, of course.
I'm the foreigner, and it's your forum.
I just find it surprising.

Foreigners are welcome, just not in ankle socks

 

[Leftitshort]

On a slight tangent, although like everyone else I am still desperate to know how the funeral and wake plays out, but four ladies in work have confided to HID (no idea why everyone uses her as a shoulder to cry on but she is a brilliant people person so maybe that answer is obvious) that their husbands have been having affairs which they have now found out about. All are mid-late 50's and married for 20+ years except one who was engaged (her first husband passed away) and so she now has an ex-fiancee and all have separated as a result. Seems a rather unusual thing to happen to so many in one work place (lots of different charities in one hub so not all working directly for the same organisation) after so long so maybe the OP case wasn't so strange

Maybe it’s a trap Homer? Your good lady wife is trying to find out if you have a mixed foursomes partner on the side?

 

[Swango1980]

My feeling is that it is a pity the Jeremy Kyle show is no longer in production. Real potential to get a few guests out of this messy situation

 

[Bunkermagnet]

I cant help but wonder how we would feel if we were the surviving partner and our partner/spouse were the one in question?
I suspect some of the glib replies wouldn't be forthcoming then.