Random Irritations

Wolf said:
My Ex and how she treats our kids, she asked me to continue the tradition of buying each other a present from the kids so they can pick something as they enjoy it, no problem I said. Took the kids out before Christmas all 3 chose a seperate present each and card which I happily paid for and was meant to exchange today when I picked them up as wasn't allowed them Christmas day as usual.. Now for the irritating bit...

Despite saying no to christmas day, she rocks up at my new in-laws at 6pm Christmas day with the kids and their packed bags to drop them off unannounced as she has now made plans with her new boyfriend on the day despite telling me I can't have them and asks for her present from kids, so to not ruin kids Christmas they give their mum her present, the Inlaws make room for kids give them presents include them in games and they're staying now till tomorrow... Yet despite all this she gives me nothing and it takes my daughter to say sorry we haven't got you a present daddy, mummy wouldn't let us buy you anything... Tell her not to worry having them here is all the gift I could need. I text the ex to advise her when I'll drop them home as will have their presents to bring home only to receive a reply of, I won't be home don't know when I'll be back as I'm busy and didn't bother with your present didn't see the point...

Haven't even warranted her with a response instead my partner, her family and I have all had fun watching kids films, making lego and having fun. Yet she wonders why my kids keep asking to come and live with Daddy and his girlfriend who treats them like her own...

First time I've been able to vent that any where in 2 days as never speak bad of her in front of kids... And breathe..
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When you see her give her the rocket of her life and leave her in no doubt what you think of her with the warning that if anything like this happens again you will keep the kids and she get burn in hell.

Worked for me.
 
Not sure what boils my pee more... The arsewipes that feel it's OK to steal anothers means of earning a living... Or, those that probably know full well that what they are buying has 'history'...

No doubt someone will chime up that as we all indulge in a bit of speeding a bit of 'casual' thieving is OK 😡...
 
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Wolf said:
My Ex and how she treats our kids, she asked me to continue the tradition of buying each other a present from the kids so they can pick something as they enjoy it, no problem I said. Took the kids out before Christmas all 3 chose a seperate present each and card which I happily paid for and was meant to exchange today when I picked them up as wasn't allowed them Christmas day as usual.. Now for the irritating bit...

Despite saying no to christmas day, she rocks up at my new in-laws at 6pm Christmas day with the kids and their packed bags to drop them off unannounced as she has now made plans with her new boyfriend on the day despite telling me I can't have them and asks for her present from kids, so to not ruin kids Christmas they give their mum her present, the Inlaws make room for kids give them presents include them in games and they're staying now till tomorrow... Yet despite all this she gives me nothing and it takes my daughter to say sorry we haven't got you a present daddy, mummy wouldn't let us buy you anything... Tell her not to worry having them here is all the gift I could need. I text the ex to advise her when I'll drop them home as will have their presents to bring home only to receive a reply of, I won't be home don't know when I'll be back as I'm busy and didn't bother with your present didn't see the point...

Haven't even warranted her with a response instead my partner, her family and I have all had fun watching kids films, making lego and having fun. Yet she wonders why my kids keep asking to come and live with Daddy and his girlfriend who treats them like her own...

First time I've been able to vent that any where in 2 days as never speak bad of her in front of kids... And breathe..
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Bloody hell mate, makes me feel very lucky the relationship with my ex missus is pretty amicable and we've never had any problems regarding our daughter.
Best of luck.
 
AmandaJR said:
What an utter bitch! I don't get how parents can take their "feud" and have it impact on the kids - that's simply cruel and terrible parenting. Sounds like they've got a great Dad though so just keep on doing what you're doing.
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I can't claim to be a great dad that's for them to decide as they get older but I can claim to love them dearly, never been late to pick them up, never been to busy to be with them listen to them and never said about word about their mum in front of them. Our feud is her feud as I have no desire to have any grief it's purely a guilt thing from her that's continued for years. Got solicitor appointment start of next month so we will see how that goes.
 
Wolf said:
I can't claim to be a great dad that's for them to decide as they get older but I can claim to love them dearly, never been late to pick them up, never been to busy to be with them listen to them and never said about word about their mum in front of them. Our feud is her feud as I have no desire to have any grief it's purely a guilt thing from her that's continued for years. Got solicitor appointment start of next month so we will see how that goes.
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Yep - great Dad! I'm sure they'll appreciate that even more as they get older. Good luck at the solicitor - must be stressful.
 
You find a competition on the interweb...
You answer the question, fill in all your details and then it tells you that the competition is only open to residents of USA....
 
Wolf said:
I can't claim to be a great dad that's for them to decide as they get older but I can claim to love them dearly, never been late to pick them up, never been to busy to be with them listen to them and never said about word about their mum in front of them. Our feud is her feud as I have no desire to have any grief it's purely a guilt thing from her that's continued for years. Got solicitor appointment start of next month so we will see how that goes.
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Good luck mate
 
Driving through sunshine to find the golf course is bathed in fog with visibility varying between 100 and 140yds!
14 of the greens we were approaching blind and couldn't see the pins until we were really close to the greens.
 
Absolute human waste who think it's funny to torch all of the golf buggies!

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We get a phone call today. Our cat sitter has got herself locked in. Apparently the porch door lock is broken, and she cant get out. Can we help. From Madeira.
We phone our cleaner, as she has keys. Can she open the door from the outside, and let the mog sitter out.
Next phone call. Now the cleaner, and the mog sitter are locked in. Do we know anyone else?
 
Bought some ski gear in the sales yesterday, I got a call today to say there has been a stock issue and they've actually sold out.
 
murphthemog said:
We get a phone call today. Our cat sitter has got herself locked in. Apparently the porch door lock is broken, and she cant get out. Can we help. From Madeira.
We phone our cleaner, as she has keys. Can she open the door from the outside, and let the mog sitter out.
Next phone call. Now the cleaner, and the mog sitter are locked in. Do we know anyone else?
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Only you’ll know 😂😂
 
MRs dando being ill in bed but moaning that’s she’s hungry.
Step daughter and her partner been at home all day but not thought to sort tea out but it’s my fault even though I’ve been at work
 
Dando said:
MRs dando being ill in bed but moaning that’s she’s hungry.
Step daughter and her partner been at home all day but not thought to sort tea out but it’s my fault even though I’ve been at work
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Our place is in the wrong James me lad.....you should have worked this out by now:LOL:
 
Amazon

HID ordered a children's book for a Christmas pressie. The Company supplying (Bramley Farm) said that it had been despatched and would arrive before Xmas and it never did. When we looked into the company they have a 95% failure rate of supply in the last 30 days and only an 18% good rating overall in 12 months - so why do Amazon allow them to still trade with their customers?
 
Dando said:
MRs dando being ill in bed but moaning that’s she’s hungry.
Step daughter and her partner been at home all day but not thought to sort tea out but it’s my fault even though I’ve been at work
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Sounds like she wants a kick the arse.
 
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