You're continually blaming the club, if it's a members club then it's the members who are at fault.
Ok I see. Your statement in isolation was meaningless.
Your right that clubs need members. I'd say spending over 1500 a year on fees is far from spending nothing
Sorry clubs have only themselves to blame. If older clubs had made an effort to shake of their restrictive nature and modernise they may not have found them selves in such a crisis.
The game lives in the past. I and my golfing friends have no desire to sit in the club house for an hour before or after a game . That's just life, potters bar didn't close because of no one using the bar.
do your game arrive, play then all get in their cars and go? Crikey, ok
Exactly my view on it to, get fed up hearing people complain others don't support the club because every time they're there they don't buy a pint or 2, a meal or sit and spend hours in clubhouse. I don't drink with the exception for a penchant for a Guiness and that's very rare maybe once every couple of months unless I'm in Ireland!I'm of the opinion that if you can't stay you can't stay. Plain and simple. Some people on here seem to get their Y-fronts in a twist if you don't go into the clubhouse and buy a drink or a roll or lunch etc. Sometimes life is too busy,you never know what other people are facing or going through.
Could be childcare, home, health, other pressures that people need to get home for.
Personally if you pay your fees you are supporting the club is the way I view it.
Exactly my view on it to, get fed up hearing people complain others don't support the club because every time they're there they don't buy a pint or 2, a meal or sit and spend hours in clubhouse. I don't drink with the exception for a penchant for a Guiness and that's very rare maybe once every couple of months unless I'm in Ireland!
At best I may manage a post round coffee but I have young kids and a Mrs that deserves a break as much as I do so getting home after 4 hrs to myself sometimes is quite important to get time with them. The golf club and putting a couple quid behind the bar isn't my priority once I've finished my round. I'll try to spend maybe up to 30mins post round if I can there out of courtesy but more often than not ill advise my playing partners of my need to leave and they'll understand.
I totally get your point and yes everyone does have to eat but I can do that just as easily at home with my kids and spend time with them whilst doing it instead of waiting at bar to order, then waiting for it to turn up etc. In some places where things can get busy that could be 45mins to an hour by time you finish eating and leave then have to drive home. In most instances I'd rather have that hour doing things with my family, but as I've said on occasions I will try spend some tine afterward with my playing partners and that's not to support the club but to be social and civil to those I've just spent 4hrs with on course.Obviously people do often have somewhere to be after golf and no one is saying people should spend 7 hours at the golf club every day.
However, I think if everyone bought at least a coffee or a drink after every round - it would make a massive difference to a lot of clubs.
Also - with regards to food - as I've said before - everyone has to eat. Ok, so you might not have a big lunch at a restaurant every day, but is £2.50 for a bacon roll a big issue?
Even if you were just going to have a toastie or a sandwich in the house, it still costs you something for the ingredients, so the relative cost to support your club is minimal.
Possibly .... old blokes at my club talk with fondness of the days where theyd arrive for a full fry-up, play, then spend rest of the day at the club drinking!
Well, it's no like that anymore (for most!) BUT , do your game arrive, play then all get in their cars and go? Crikey, ok, some weeks some of our lot might do that if they have somewhere to be, but in general, we go in for one or two and mostly have lunch.
I totally get your point and yes everyone does have to eat but I can do that just as easily at home with my kids and spend time with them whilst doing it instead of waiting at bar to order, then waiting for it to turn up etc. In some places where things can get busy that could be 45mins to an hour by time you finish eating and leave then have to drive home. In most instances I'd rather have that hour doing things with my family, but as I've said on occasions I will try spend some tine afterward with my playing partners and that's not to support the club but to be social and civil to those I've just spent 4hrs with on course.
I'm not against spending money or people wishing to but I am against being made to feel like I wouldn't be supporting the club if I don't buy said toastie every week, because as I mentioned there are other more important factors in my personal life. As I get older and kids grow more revenue will go to the club through them having junior memberships, then as they get older I can spend less time with them as they go off to uni and spend more time socialising at the club. My frustration is people using their own circumstance or the argument I should support the club more to judge others for not using all the facilities all the time. We all have different priorities in life and that's what should be respected.
You say not advocating spending 7hrs there but as an example I turn up 30mins before tee time, spend 4 hours on the course and then say 30mins after that's 5hrs to myself away from my parental responsibility, factor in driving to the course that could be around 6hrs, now if I stop everytime to do my bit and support the club as you say I'd be teetering the 7hr mark, if I did that every week then personally I see that as unfair on my family and my partner as she is equally entitled to some down time. So for me if paying my subs,. Playing weekly and using all the facilities infrequently but as and when I can there should be no issue or people moaning I'm not supporting the club as they're not living my life and may have different priorities. That's entirely there choice and I commend them on that as I'd love to be able to do it but currently cannot.
I'm not trying be argumentative or put myself above anyone just merely responding to the points mentioned as it so often is when people say those that don't frequently buy more in club are singled out without actually knowing them or their reasons.
Obviously people do often have somewhere to be after golf and no one is saying people should spend 7 hours at the golf club every day.
However, I think if everyone bought at least a coffee or a drink after every round - it would make a massive difference to a lot of clubs.
Also - with regards to food - as I've said before - everyone has to eat. Ok, so you might not have a big lunch at a restaurant every day, but is £2.50 for a bacon roll a big issue?
Even if you were just going to have a toastie or a sandwich in the house, it still costs you something for the ingredients, so the relative cost to support your club is minimal.
I certainly try not to be a car park golfer but there are probably more times than not I have to be at the moment.I completely get that and as a golfer with young kids as well, it is a big time commitment.
I won't be playing every Saturday, but when I do I will be dividing my time and either will be trying to play morning or afternoon so that I can have some kind of activity with the kids.
And certainly you sound far from the car park golfer who never sets foot in the clubhouse, but like I said, I think the number of guys who never so much as buy a coffee or a soft drink is alarmingly high at a lot of places.
Why though?
What right does a GC have to "expect" loyalty and your money after you have paid your fees?
Just say for example that I or another member is living on a budget and the weekly shopping budget includes my "toastie" or roll and bacon ingredients. Therefore having budgeted for this why must a member find extra to support the club which they are already supporting?
That may seem extreme but it can also be reality for some.
This pretty much says my thoughts on the subject. At my previous club I was a single man who always stayed for a drink and supported club nights. Now I'm a dad of 2 kids of 6 and under and I get one round at the weekend, teeing off at 7.30, finished by 10.30 and home by 11am.I'm of the opinion that if you can't stay you can't stay. Plain and simple. Some people on here seem to get their Y-fronts in a twist if you don't go into the clubhouse and buy a drink or a roll or lunch etc. Sometimes life is too busy,you never know what other people are facing or going through.
Could be childcare, home, health, other pressures that people need to get home for.
Personally if you pay your fees you are supporting the club is the way I view it.
Can i ask what clubs you are looking at in the Herts area ?Some of the club's I've been looking at want you to join on a temporary basis while you collect enough signatures to become a full member. Others want circa 2k joining fees.
Then there are proposers, seconders, interviews...
For a game in decline and clubs struggling for members I think they could do more to be a bit more welcoming
Some of the club's I've been looking at want you to join on a temporary basis while you collect enough signatures to become a full member. Others want circa 2k joining fees.
Then there are proposers, seconders, interviews...
For a game in decline and clubs struggling for members I think they could do more to be a bit more welcoming