hovis
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Don't bond well with golfers ?! They are just normal people
Put a group of fisherman, golfers and skydivers in a room and imo you will experience three totally different personalities.
Don't bond well with golfers ?! They are just normal people
Put a group of fisherman, golfers and skydivers in a room and imo you will experience three totally different personalities.
You really judge people like that ? Based on the sport they play ?
Golf is a very social game - you interact socially whilst playing golf - yet you say you won't socialise with golfers ? Do you play in silence ?
Put a group of fisherman, golfers and skydivers in a room and imo you will experience three totally different personalities.
Very odd and selective some of these private members clubs? And not the sort of people you'd normally mingle with. Our weekend swindle is full of them - out of the regulars, I think I could get my bathroom fitted, plumbed and wired, whilst getting cabbed down to Homebase to get supplies. And whilst waiting for the paint to dry, I could have my accounts done, my housing benefit sorted, get someone arrested, and probably have them sent down for two more years than they should be. I could have my risks managed, my quantities surveyed and my teeth filled.
But the strange thing is, everyone looks the same when they're bending down to pick a golf ball out of the hole...
What group do people who both fish and play golf go into?
What group do people who both fish and play golf go into?
I don't know any sky divers...
Rather socialise with people from my own circles. I have met many nice people on the golf course but few that i'd spend social time with. i'm very selective of my company. I had my 30th birthay party in a phone box!!
I take it all back. Your my type of person. Fancy a pint in the club house!!!!I know what you are saying, I've got a group of mates I've known for decades and I need more than the fact we like playing the same sport to become people I'd socialise with.
I also can't understand those couples who go on holiday with people they meet at NCT classes as all they normally have in common is that they are having a baby. Couldn't stand most of the couples in ours and when someone suggested a get together after the births we made sure we were busy that night. Baa humbug.
The single and available group probably![]()
Not so sure about that. I play golf with a lot of people that also fish. They are lovely people when they play golf, but I hear they are horrible when they become fisherman.Put a group of fisherman, golfers and skydivers in a room and imo you will experience three totally different personalities.
Ah, but. To me you mightI'm fairly sure that I don't look like this when I'm bending over to get the ball out of the hole..............
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Having recently joined a new club ( and knowing absolutely no existing members there) I can empathise.
It's a members club based in Cambridge, the land is owned by one of the oldest colleges at Cambridge University, and at my interview I looked at the list of past captains on the board full of Professors, Brigadier Generals, Judges and the like. The place is 110 years old and reeks of tradition.
I am of North London origin, working class with no airs and graces.
Since I joined 1 month ago I have played with 8 different members, and met and spoke to approximately another 10-20 in the clubhouse.
To a man they have welcomed me as a new member, I have been made to feel welcome and encouraged to integrate myself into the club by playing comps and signing up to play in club matchers in the coming season. There have also been enough f's and c's heard on the course (not from me, I'm still on my best behaviour!!) to make me feel at home.
The interview was a concern at the time, but was (as I was correctly advised on here), little more than a formality. I was asked what I did for a living, amongst other things, but it wasn't a big deal.
It's horses for courses IMO, members clubs and their traditions/processes might not be for everyone, and if you don't agree with something, there's plenty of other options to get your golf fix.
I'm fairly sure that I don't look like this when I'm bending over to get the ball out of the hole..............
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