2blue
Journeyman Pro
Any player worth their salt would want to know if the 'consensus' decision was correct otherwise they may find that they are CHEATING on the rest of the field. And YES, I know it happens all the time... this cheating!!! It's shocking, as you simply play a 2nd ball & find out the ruling later. That is the honorable course.... not just staying quiet about what the group has decided. It always has to be THE PLAYER who decides on his actions NOT the decision he may manage to obtain from his playing partners.How would you find out? Once you've agreed you just get on with your lives and it's forgotten about. If you coincidentally find out you were wrong from innocuous chatter it might be a month, three months later.. of course then you just say I'll know for next time it happens.
And yes, of course it happens all the time.