The red tee boxes are not very large and would struggle with the additional wear. The ladies are very protective of those tees and when a few tees were combined early this winter there was indeed 'hell on' and the men were quickly moved onto the fairways instead after strong representations from the ladies section.Why would this be the case…and hell?…and the very fact you refer to the reds as ladies tees shows why it is sensible to de-genderise (if there be such a term) tees. If you struggle off longer tees in winter especially, then you should be able, with no stigma attached, to play off a forward tee. And if that’s a red then so be it.
Our red tees are only rated for ladies, not men, hence why I added red, ladies tees.
I agree with you, tees should not be gender based. To reach that point though you need the infrastructure to manage that move and at the moment, whilst my club has the space, it doesn't have the money to strengthen that infrastructure. It is what it is.