backwoodsman
Tour Winner
If I am three down with four to play I tell myself that the match is still there to be won, not that I can play to my handicap over the final four holes.
That said I absolutely do not play any mind games by vocalising my thinking. I did it once on the 18th green at Hindhead in an inter-club match. Last out I was level playing the last and I had to win my match for us to win overall. I holed my putt and my opponent had a 3footer for the half and so to half our match and half overall. I told my teammates at the side of the green that my opponent had to hole his putt or I'd win the match. My opponent would have heard - he missed the putt then gave me a bit of a glare...rightly so. I had got carried away - I did it as I topped my tee shot on the 1st and hadn't cleared the tee - everyone had laughed...fair enough. But my comment on the 18th was not appropriate. I had never said such before, and I won't do it again.
Note: I most certainly play mind games with gimmes
Not sure I agree. Your mistake was to tell your team-mates. I'd have told him to his face - "So, this for a half then ..." Then watched him putt.