This is true, it’s all lifestyle, I’m an 80/20 man, and just manage it if I’ve got something on.I haven’t read all the thread,however I’ve never been overweight to the point I needed to diet.
However Diet is just the worst thing you can do, because it’s short term and almost a guarantee that you will put on weight again, if not more than before.
Go on a lifestyle you can always keep control of.
Steady state cardio is no good,plenty of info as to why.
Don’t go too serious unless you really want to be serious because it’s really hard to maintain.
Enjoy the process, that’s the key.
It takes months not days or a few weeks to see big changes.
No point been good Monday to Friday then going off the rails at the weekend, then wondering why you’re seen no change!!