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I'd bet not many women strive to keep their vanity handicap.
Men and our ego's, gets us in all sorts of bother! 🙈
Men and our ego's, gets us in all sorts of bother! 🙈
Every round of golf counts for me whether it's social or competition, so I suppose what i'm getting at is if you played a par 70 in a comp and shot 80 (10 over) and then played 4 more social rounds and shot 100 (30 over) in theory you would have averaged 96 (26 over) but because you discarded your social rounds you would walk around saying i am a +10 golfer when in fact you are a +26 golfer, so are you cheating yourself is my question.
I think that's nonsense personally. When I play 'social' rounds it's just practise, having a laugh with mates. e.g. you can't find your ball you just drop another one, not walk all the way back to the tee. You give each other putts (perhaps overly generous sometimes). Sometimes we even make little bargains with other, e.g. weekend just gone one mate wanted to try his driver out but not ruin his score, so we made a deal that if he makes a hash of it, we'll give him a mulligan, but if he nailed it he would have to hit it over the ditch on the 18th as well. Silly things like that. Oh and we play off the yellows as well rather than the whites that we would in a comp.Every round of golf counts for me whether it's social or competition, so I suppose what i'm getting at is if you played a par 70 in a comp and shot 80 (10 over) and then played 4 more social rounds and shot 100 (30 over) in theory you would have averaged 96 (26 over) but because you discarded your social rounds you would walk around saying i am a +10 golfer when in fact you are a +26 golfer, so are you cheating yourself is my question.
How can you say this type of round should count towards your handicap??? It's a different game when you're not playing competitively.
..... so are you cheating yourself is my question.
They can bloody try!January 1st, 2020, the R&A will be round your house to confiscate your clubs! You'll see! :rofl:
I'd bet not many women strive to keep their vanity handicap.
Men and our ego's, gets us in all sorts of bother! 
Every round of golf counts for me whether it's social or competition, so I suppose what i'm getting at is if you played a par 70 in a comp and shot 80 (10 over) and then played 4 more social rounds and shot 100 (30 over) in theory you would have averaged 96 (26 over) but because you discarded your social rounds you would walk around saying i am a +10 golfer when in fact you are a +26 golfer, so are you cheating yourself is my question.
I'd bet not many women strive to keep their vanity handicap.
Men and our ego's, gets us in all sorts of bother! 🙈
I'm afraid this got me laughing out loud!
One simple assessment of things will show you how funny this is - look at the average ladies competition results across a load of clubs and see just how many end up SSS+3 RO; then look at the number of increases applied to lady members in ARs.
Appreciate that you may not have access to things like howdidido for data, or the inside track on AR output but on the face of it there are a lot more ladies out there who's handicaps 'flatter a little' than men.
I do however agree that it's somewhat surprising in the context of ego!
I'd bet not many women strive to keep their vanity handicap.
Men and our ego's, gets us in all sorts of bother! 
A comment I would not agree with as a handicap committee chairman. Our handicap secretary reckons this is where the biggest increases will be when the new handicap system comes in.
Of course it's not cheating.