Colin L
Tour Winner
Some men at my club struggle off the comp tees due to age ,length of course,but the main problem is their handicap is 28 Max in competition.
so 28 shots over 7000 yds.
where a lady golfer will get 36 shots over 5800 yds plus one shot for sss.
if both genders play to a 36 hcap of the respected tees then the men are at a disadvantage as the max hcap is 8 +1 =9 shots lower than the ladies.
in an ideal world you would get the hcap that suits your ability if that is 40 shots then so be it , as a player who shoots 40 over who can't play to 28 is not going to shoot lower just because his handicap is capped at 28 and the same for a 36 handicapper but she has 8 shots more and plays 1000 yds less
in this scenario I can see why some men are unhappy.
i know the powers that be are trying to address this but this remains unsolved yet.
I think it's one of them " You can't please everyone all the time".
So if you don't like losing to a woman don't play in mixed competition.
but if you can't play to the max handicap then you should be used to not winning and this issue should not bother you that much anyway.
we should learn to play golf enjoy it and just stop stressing about trivial stuff.
Perhaps it is time your club looked at the CONGU Club Handicap.