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Rather that just be repetitive and call it a stupid rule, why not accept it, thank your opponent for showing your team the error of your ways and learn from it., thus preventing either of you from repeating this mistake and now you are in a better and more knowledgeable position to assist others who may not be aware of some rules, win win.

Well I'll back him and agree stupid rule. If the rocket is that desperate to win than he's a trumped up sad git.

Genuinely who on this forum would call that incident out???
 
What's worse is he must have seen what was going to happen and waited for it. Id have pointed it out before you fell foul of it.
Was it a proper match or just a friendly. If its the latter the guy is a grade A knob and should have made you aware of the issue before you played the shot. Stupid rule or not you do have an inherent responsibility to know the majority and sadly in my opinion it's one of the more known ones
I hadn't even played the shot, but the penalty becomes active as soon as you address the ball. I put my putter behind the ball (was off the green though), and he stopped me and said it was now a two-shot penalty because my partner was in line with the shot. This was semi-final of the matchplay betterball knockout, since you asked.

Rather that just be repetitive and call it a stupid rule, why not accept it, thank your opponent for showing your team the error of your ways and learn from it., thus preventing either of you from repeating this mistake and now you are in a better and more knowledgeable position to assist others who may not be aware of some rules, win win.
Personally I found it incredibly harsh, and if the shoe was on the other foot I'd have maybe advised of the rule but let the other team off the penalty. Since it was extremely obvious I wasn't using him to line up my putt, I didn't even know he was there. But if I've learn anything from this forum it's that some people are bigger sticklers for rules than others. On the plus side we didn't actually lose the hole because their other player missed his putt and my partner got the half in bogeys.
 
Rather that just be repetitive and call it a stupid rule, why not accept it, thank your opponent for showing your team the error of your ways and learn from it., thus preventing either of you from repeating this mistake and now you are in a better and more knowledgeable position to assist others who may not be aware of some rules, win win.

Why not just learn the rules and not put your opponents in a position where they either have to ignore your cheating or call the penalty on you?
 
Why is it stupid
The rule was invented for pros who had their caddies stand behind them to indicate the line, correct? This situation was absolutely nothing like that. I had a discussion with my partner about my shot (allowed in betterball obviously), then he simply walked off and I never gave a second's thought as to where he was standing. In my mind I'm just playing a shot and suddenly I get a two shot penalty having done absolutely nothing wrong. I'm sure you can at least agree that this would be irritating (hence posting it here).
 
Why not just learn the rules and not put your opponents in a position where they either have to ignore your cheating or call the penalty on you?
I didn't break any rules, that's why it was irritating! He was well out of my field of vision, had no clue where he was standing, and I didn't even give it a second's thought since I was concentrating on my shot. Suddenly two shot penalty, I'm out of the hole. :confused:
 
I hadn't even played the shot, but the penalty becomes active as soon as you address the ball. I put my putter behind the ball (was off the green though), and he stopped me and said it was now a two-shot penalty because my partner was in line with the shot. This was semi-final of the matchplay betterball knockout, since you asked.


Personally I found it incredibly harsh, and if the shoe was on the other foot I'd have maybe advised of the rule but let the other team off the penalty. Since it was extremely obvious I wasn't using him to line up my putt, I didn't even know he was there. But if I've learn anything from this forum it's that some people are bigger sticklers for rules than others. On the plus side we didn't actually lose the hole because their other player missed his putt and my partner got the half in bogeys.
It’s not a penalty until you play the shot.
You could have walked away, told your partner to move, and then re-start your routine.
 
I didn't break any rules, that's why it was irritating! He was well out of my field of vision, had no clue where he was standing, and I didn't even give it a second's thought since I was concentrating on my shot. Suddenly two shot penalty, I'm out of the hole. :confused:

You're in a 4BBB, you're a team, therefore the team is cheating. If you knew the rule then you could have told your partner not to stand there before you addressed the ball, but you didn't. Somehow it's your opponents' fault for knowing the rule, not yours for not knowing it & consequently breaking it.
 
The rule was invented for pros who had their caddies stand behind them to indicate the line, correct? This situation was absolutely nothing like that. I had a discussion with my partner about my shot (allowed in betterball obviously), then he simply walked off and I never gave a second's thought as to where he was standing. In my mind I'm just playing a shot and suddenly I get a two shot penalty having done absolutely nothing wrong. I'm sure you can at least agree that this would be irritating (hence posting it here).
That is obvious as you are not a pro and did not have a caddy BUT you had a partner. Pros have been penalised for their caddy’s indiscretions out of field of vision and you for your partner
 
You're in a 4BBB, you're a team, therefore the team is cheating. If you knew the rule then you could have told your partner not to stand there before you addressed the ball, but you didn't. Somehow it's your opponents' fault for knowing the rule, not yours for not knowing it & consequently breaking it.
I've heard of the rule, but I never gave it a second's thought, as I said he was out of my field of vision. I'd be shocked if many people in that position, while focusing on their shot, remembered to check behind him just in case their partner was standing in the wrong place. :rolleyes:

Edit: Also I've not said it's their fault as such. This is the irritations thread, I'm just irritated at getting a penalty for such an obscure reason that's all. Or irritated by the rule itself. Whatever.
 
I've heard of the rule, but I never gave it a second's thought, as I said he was out of my field of vision. I'd be shocked if many people in that position, while focusing on their shot, remembered to check behind him just in case their partner was standing in the wrong place. :rolleyes:

Edit: Also I've not said it's their fault as such. This is the irritations thread, I'm just irritated at getting a penalty for such an obscure reason that's all. Or irritated by the rule itself. Whatever.

If it's such an irritation have you thought of having a partner who knows the rules, thus avoiding the issue?
 
If it's such an irritation have you thought of having a partner who knows the rules, thus avoiding the issue?
I didn't blame him really, he just stood back well out of the way so I could putt. If he'd have been what, one foot to the right of where he was it would have been fine?? Or a yard? I think it's harsh to call a penalty on that basis, there is no chance whatsoever he was helping me line up the shot, he just happened to be standing there.

Have you never once experienced or witnessed a penalty that you thought was a touch harsh? Or you expect everybody to be able to recite every rule for every situation parrot-fashion?
 
What's worse is he must have seen what was going to happen and waited for it. Id have pointed it out before you fell foul of it.
+1
There seem to be two types of rules sticklers:
1. The kind who advise you that you're about to break a rule (no problem with them).
2. The kind who deliberately watch you break a rule and then advise you of the penalty. These are despicable people who have no place on a golf course.
 
+1

2. The kind who deliberately watch you break a rule and then advise you of the penalty. These are despicable people who have no place on a golf course.

Usually the same people are the on course sock police and the first to moan if a cap is seen in the clubhouse. Normally car park shoe changers and make a cup of tea or half a bitter last two hours while moaning about the state of the course and the club
 
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