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Bucky

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Only a day or two ago I was congratulating someone on here for breaking 90, whilst saying that I was still waiting for the breakthrough. Well yesterday was that breakthrough. Rolled up to the course to play my usual oneball, went in to pro shop at 12:45 and the next available tee time was 2:20. This meant I spent about 30 mins on the range going through my clubs, followed by nearly an hour on the putting green and in a bunker. As i went up to the first tee, a 2-ball had just teed off and so I hung back a bit because I wasnt ready to be rushed through them if they offered.

Anyway, I 2-putted for a nerve settling par and saw the 2-ball waiting at the 2nd tee for the group in front to hit their shots. I casually remarked that it was going to be a long day, and they offered me to join them as a 3-ball which I accepted. as we went through the usual pleasantries I explained I didnt have a handicap ( never have) and have only been playing since April and am averaging around 93 but not broken 90 yet, and that id just parred the 1st.

Well two holes later and my card reads Par-Par-Par and i'm outplaying both of them (one a 10HC one 25HC) and I started to get really embarrassed. I am new to playing with people other than my mates, and am reasonably aware that there are a lot of people who become 'suspicious' at such uncharacteristic form. It got to the point that every good shot I hit made me more uncomfortable and I kept saying - trust me guys, the collapse is just around the corner! self defeatist or what! Of course i then Double bogied the par five 4th. More doubles followed on 6 and 7 and went out in 43 (still my best).

I wont continue the hole-by-hole but I came in with a 45, which meant i shot 88 (72) and am absolutely chuffed to bits. The guys (Adam and Ian) where as nice as you could hope to meet and don't think I would have met people like that in any other sport. They were helpfull and gave advice as well as quickly telling me not to worry what they thought and to just play my game. the 10HC (Adam)complimented my ball striking saying that if I continue to work on my short game my HC (if i ever get one...) will drop like a stone (read 'backstryke' thread for more on that).

All in all one of my most enjoyable golf experiences, certainly when not playing with friends, and walked away with a massive skip in my step. I even putted quite well, holing a few that I wouldnt normally dream of making.

Thanks to Adam and Ian for welcoming me into their group, offering me a lift home and Adam signed my card for me so there is 1 to go to the collection!

Now, if only i hadnt been so embarrassed/inhibited by my early good form - who knows what might've happened!?

Can't wait to get back out on Monday...
 

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wd Bucky

one of the gre things you can take from the game we love is the people you meet, whether it be just for one round or regular playing partners.

now for 85 :p
 

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Had a similar experience with two guys on a public course when I first started playing, granted that the scoring wasn't as good but I have to agree that ours is the only game where you can meet people like this and its one of the many things that keeps me going back!

Nice work and keep it up!
 

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great scoring fella

my only 2 rounds under 90 came when I wasnt aware of my score and just played each hole at a time. Once I had done it I was expecting to do it everytime and hasnt happened now for a while, if anything my golf has got worse!!!

keep it up and look forward to hearing of your next good score (warms my cockles when others have a good round) :D
 

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Very nicely done Bucky, especially considering the added pressure of playing with people you don't know. When I first started playing I was embarassed at playing in front of others, full stop, let alone when playing well, so know the feeling!

Agree with the other comments about how this game enables you to meet and play with new people all the time. Having been at my club for a few months now, I've been really impressed with how friendly people have been and have met a fair few people out on the course and been asked to join them. Makes you feel very welcome.

Hope you manage to keep the good scoring up! :)
 

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Well done Bucky, but I don't understand the feelings of embarrassment?

No official handicap, not playing in a comp or against them for money. Keep up the good play and pretend it's always like that. :)
 

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You need to get over the embarrassment thing. Even if you have a real horror, providing you don't behave like a knob and chuck clubs, swear excessively (or too loudly) or take chunks out fo the course, most golfers are probably thinking there but for the grace of god...

We all play badly so don't go out trying to justify the good ones to yourself or your partners. Get your handicap cards in, get playing competitions and meeting new members and get that score down again. Well played
 

Bucky

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I don't get embarrassed or behave like a nob if I play badly, just get a little frustrated of course. The post may have made it seem a bigger deal that it was, I was just mentioning that joining these new guys and saying I was a bit of a hacker, to then start par-par-par-double-par I think I just worried they'd think i was taking the piss.

Im a modest guy and am the total opposite from a show off. If I hit a good shot I try to hide my quite obvious joy(surprise more like!) which probably makes it even more obvious I'm chuffed to bits! :D
 
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