Swango1980
Well-known member
I should also qualify the above, I'm not rigidly defending Player 2, as I do not know all the circumstances.
For example, had Player 2 only offered this one date, and simply refused all the other dates with no strong reason, then I would agree Player 2 is potentially more at fault and just being a pest. Maybe Player 2 is retired, and could potentially play a number of dates, but simply demanding the one date they booked should be the date played (knowing it puts Player 1 in a dilemma as they knew Player 1 would want to play the other competition). In that case, I would likely DQ Player 2.
However, if Player 2 is at work all week, holiday, or has another very good reason they cannot play these other dates, then I would DQ Player 1. It was not Player 1's fault they got Covid, but it was clear they COULD have played on the date offered, and chose to prioritise the other competition. Player 2 could have played in the weeks leading up to the deadline, but that was obviously not an option.
The 3rd option is you extend the deadline. However, as I said above, I'm not comfortable with this. Years ago our club allowed such things, and it caused huge problems. One year the final was never played at all because players in the competition just took the mick. There are some people out there that, when you give them an inch, they take a mile. They will push the conditions of comp to the limit, looking for every advantage they can, and then throw it in your face if they suffer from any action. Few and far between, but it only takes one person to do something every few years to leave a nasty taste in the mouth. So, if you have deadlines, it seems a good idea for the Committee to stick to them. The only time deadlines were extended was when the Committee led that decision, for example if terrible weather came in and course was unplayable. We didn't allow players to dictate deadlines. Imagine one player decided they didn't want to play because the weather was poor and they didn't like playing in the rain? The reason for refusal is relevant.
For example, had Player 2 only offered this one date, and simply refused all the other dates with no strong reason, then I would agree Player 2 is potentially more at fault and just being a pest. Maybe Player 2 is retired, and could potentially play a number of dates, but simply demanding the one date they booked should be the date played (knowing it puts Player 1 in a dilemma as they knew Player 1 would want to play the other competition). In that case, I would likely DQ Player 2.
However, if Player 2 is at work all week, holiday, or has another very good reason they cannot play these other dates, then I would DQ Player 1. It was not Player 1's fault they got Covid, but it was clear they COULD have played on the date offered, and chose to prioritise the other competition. Player 2 could have played in the weeks leading up to the deadline, but that was obviously not an option.
The 3rd option is you extend the deadline. However, as I said above, I'm not comfortable with this. Years ago our club allowed such things, and it caused huge problems. One year the final was never played at all because players in the competition just took the mick. There are some people out there that, when you give them an inch, they take a mile. They will push the conditions of comp to the limit, looking for every advantage they can, and then throw it in your face if they suffer from any action. Few and far between, but it only takes one person to do something every few years to leave a nasty taste in the mouth. So, if you have deadlines, it seems a good idea for the Committee to stick to them. The only time deadlines were extended was when the Committee led that decision, for example if terrible weather came in and course was unplayable. We didn't allow players to dictate deadlines. Imagine one player decided they didn't want to play because the weather was poor and they didn't like playing in the rain? The reason for refusal is relevant.