In the instances that I've played, once it is out it stays out. No one is insisting it goes back in 'because it is better'. I've left it in for long putts, even for tap ins if my first is just short and there is no one to remove the flag. I'll then happily ask what the others want and act accordingly.New to the site (enjoying it) and just referred to this thread. Perhaps you'll pardon me not reading all 19 pages, but I wonder if there's been a consensus reached on how to figure shot order. While ready golf is always fine, it's been a bit confusing two weeks in trying to figure when to pull the pin. So far, it seems everyone declaring what they prefer, then 'pin-in' players hit first regardless of distance to cup, then 'pin-outs'. But there have also been pin jabbing in/out awkward moments similar to an intern trying to draw blood...
If people use common sense there should be no issue. If people want to dig their heels in, either way, then there may be issues but to be honest if anyone is that bothered I'd rather not play with them in future. The two groups I've played with have gone with the flow, it's partly why I play with those people.