LEOHALL
New member
Setting the scene - we were a three-ball in the monthly stableford qualifier so we swopped cards as usual. I was marking the card of a new(ish) golfer ( lets call her D) who still struggles to keep count of her own shots, never mind keeping track of her playing partners. My card was with the third player (M) and off we went. At each hole we were declaring our score and points out loud, however something changed at hole 12 and I could really do with some advice please...
M struggled in the mud on hole 12 (par 4), finally reaching the green with her fourth shot. Her first putt was very short, her next putt missed so she holed out for 7. I declared my score out loud - 5 for 2 - before pushing my trolley down to the next tee. I noticed her making a show of counting her shots, pointing out to the fairway etc, and I soon realised that I was alone on the next tee while the other two were stood close together talking quietly. They noticed me looking back at them and M asked me what my score was, so I repeated '5 for 2'.
For some reason things felt different and awkward, and I wanted to ask the other two what they had scored, but as I already knew, I felt I shouldn't ask M as I wasn't marking her card.
The incident bothered me all day so last evening I had a look on EG and noticed that she had entered a 6 on hole 12 - incidentally she won the qualifier but by more than one point so it wouldn't have affected the outcome.
Please advise what I could or should have differently, if anything? Is it any of my business that M put down the wrong score? D is very new (handicap 46) so would never challenge a playing partner's score.
I would really appreciated some feedback as this may happen again and I would like to know what to do.
Thanks!
M struggled in the mud on hole 12 (par 4), finally reaching the green with her fourth shot. Her first putt was very short, her next putt missed so she holed out for 7. I declared my score out loud - 5 for 2 - before pushing my trolley down to the next tee. I noticed her making a show of counting her shots, pointing out to the fairway etc, and I soon realised that I was alone on the next tee while the other two were stood close together talking quietly. They noticed me looking back at them and M asked me what my score was, so I repeated '5 for 2'.
For some reason things felt different and awkward, and I wanted to ask the other two what they had scored, but as I already knew, I felt I shouldn't ask M as I wasn't marking her card.
The incident bothered me all day so last evening I had a look on EG and noticed that she had entered a 6 on hole 12 - incidentally she won the qualifier but by more than one point so it wouldn't have affected the outcome.
Please advise what I could or should have differently, if anything? Is it any of my business that M put down the wrong score? D is very new (handicap 46) so would never challenge a playing partner's score.
I would really appreciated some feedback as this may happen again and I would like to know what to do.
Thanks!