Magical first round of golf

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first post.
sorry its a long one but I felt it right to share the experience.

This was my 15 year old son’s first attempt to play on a recognised golf course. He has been joining me on the practice range and hitting balls for around 3 months but showing no interest at all in wanting to play the game.
He considers it a game for old men and much prefers his team sports such as football, rugby and cricket. Golf is not seen as cool by him or his peers.
I spoke to my club professional about trying to encourage him as he also has seen a natural swing and ability that I want to develop. He suggested booking a round after school in the quiet twilight period and ,as always, I followed his advice.
We started the round in bright sun shine and shirt sleeves.
2 holes in there was a hail storm of biblical proportions that turned the greens white.
I was concerned that this would put him off but surprisingly he seemed to be enjoying every minute of the hypothermic conditions. It rained for the remained of the round but it didn’t matter as we were both striking the ball well , we were having a good game. He was competitive and this added to the fun.
We approached the ninth tee with trepidation.
Elevated green protected by 6 bunkers all to the front and side.
OOB left and right. Two lakes to carry directly in front of the tee.
Adding to the fun is the fact that the green is overlooked by a restaurant and conservatory habited by members who take pleasure in seeing the travails of other golfers while they sit in the dry and eat and drink.
This was a proper test of bottle!!
My 161 yard tee shot was straight but short next to a bunker. “Follow that!” I said as we moved forward onto his 138 yd tee.
He then hit the sweetest iron shot I have ever seen , arrow straight, beautiful shape over the water, the bunker, MY BALL and dropped softly next to the flag. 40” inches away to be exact.

We walked to the green and I looked up to see a number of the warm and dry residents standing and applauding his shot. He took a wet bow and then sunk the putt for a two which received another round of applause. I lost the plot and carded a 5!!!
He has taken to reminding me of his shot at every opportunity and is leaving a copy of his first scorecard around the house to wind me up even more.
Has he got the golfing addiction like his Dad?
I’m not sure, but he can certainly hit it better than I could at his age.
I would love him to become more engaged with the game as we have a fantastic junior section at my club.
Any thoughts from other forum members as to how I can encourage his involvement without pushing/forcing him into something he doesn’t want to do?
 

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Hello and welcome, a great first post and an evening you will both always remember, at this stage all you can do is keep offering to take your son to the range, course putting green clubhouse for a drink etc and let him decide if he wants to carry on or not try and find convinent times for you both and try to avoid clashes with his other plans, just letoffer the opportuniyies and let him make his own mind up. Maybe get him a subs to the mag as well?
 

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A brilliant read!

Obviously its best not to push him. But equally there's nothing wrong with letting him see the odd pic of top golfers and what they wear/use. A trip to buy a really good branded polo shirt will lead, in time, to an empty wallet.

Both my boys, 27 & 24, play. And down the years the evening knocks and, evetually, competition rounds have been fantastic fun. We've done the Dad's and lads trips with other father and son pairings - and a wonderful pic of us on the Swilkin Bridge at St Andrews.

Good luck with him, and I hope you have as much enjoyment as us.
 
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You definitely can't push him. Give it a week or two, and if he doesn't mention it, ask him if he wants to play again, and challenge him to see if he can repeat the same shot. I think if you make it more of a challenge for him, he might want to improve and be determined.

Does he do chores around the house? Reward it...if he beats you, then you do his chores or something for a period of time. 15 is a bit of an odd age, as kids (though I have none of my own, and am only 24 myself) start to make their own decisions and want to be independent. I think it is a case of play it slowly and see how he goes
 

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What a fabulous first post and tale!

As other have said don't pressure him but make it clear that you are ready when he is - say to him that you are ready for your next outing as soon as he is and keep that competitive edge going by telling him you won't make it as easy for him this time!
 

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Great opener. I would just let him decide what he wants to do. Does he really think golf is uncool or just goes along with peers who have never tried it. Having tasted success and seeing the crowd reaction you might find he is hooked but being 15 doesn't want to seem a geek to his mates. It's hard when golf still has this image but let him decide for himself. Maybe suggest a few more range sessions to keep him interested and wait a month or so until the really long evenings come and suggest another game
 

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Impressive!

Hope he takes up the game seriously, I got into the game seriously about 4 years ago (now 25 and 3 quarters) and so wish I'd played when I was younger as I'm certain I'd be a better golfer for it now.

Just hope he a positive lad and doesn't get down when he can't make birdies every time, or play that same hole so well each time.

Even if he doesn't take it up now, I'm certain he will be involved when he gets a bit older.
 

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He has good memories of the game so that should help make him more amenable to the game. Playing golf with your lad is a great way to spend quality time with him. Tell him how much you enjoyed playing with him and ask if he wants to go again. Take him up the road to the Open in July to see some of the big boys as a treat?
 
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