Slab
Occasional Tour Caddy
If its a members club, you should get priority, no question.
We have full time starters and even if there were 50 guys waiting on the tee we would be let though to play extra holes.
as for your partner, i wouldn't be happy about that either.
I think that's the right thing to do although I'd stop short of expecting a group to be pulled off the tee box for me (might become complicated if its comp groups waiting to go out at set times which is why the process seems to be down to common sense)