How am I doing? - Letting HID in on the plan....

This is why we have our own money, so she and I can spend it on what we want without having to get permission.
We put all our income in one pot, pay the bills, food & clothes for our son, then split whats left 50/50. We'll it's more 60/40 in my favour but she doesn't know that, an after all she pays in 20% to begin with.
 
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