Captainron
Big Hitting, South African Sweary Person
I'm 38 with a wife and 2 kids who are 6 and 7. I work Monday to Friday from 9 - 5. My wife works for the NHS and does shifts. I love golf, cricket, hockey and rugby. I want to play them all as much as possible.
This year I gave up my membership because I couldn't justify the £700 outlay. I played 30 odd times at Spalding over the last membership year and enjoyed it but that meant that I gave up on all the other sports I loved.
Weekends are pretty much the only option for me but that's when all the other sports are too. I decided to get back into cricket and had fun. Because of family plans, holidays etc I could only play in 9 matches this year. So god knows just how little golf I would have manged. Luckily I can take the boys with me for the day as there is always space for them to play while I'm out chasing leather. Both kids play hockey and rugby at my club so they come down with me when I'm playing those.
Golf is a bit different in that I can't have my kids round with me yet (Give them 5 or 6 years and if they like the game then maybe). Time is a major factor when dealing with kids and their attention spans.
So I now find myself in the marginalised member bracket. I want to play more golf and would love to be a member but that would be throwing cash down the drain. I was sad to read the letter from the club saying that my membership was terminated but that I could reapply to join in the future but I couldn't be a slave to the game and I don't want to have to play golf just because I have spent the most on it.
I have also found myself wanting to play less now that I a playing more other sports and haven't had a game since June I think.
I will rejoin in the future but I believe that I fall into the age bracket where golf clubs are losing their most members and I can see why.
I would still love to maintain an active official handicap and play in opens etc. but that can't be done unless I am a member somewhere. That for me is a major drawback.
Shame really.
This year I gave up my membership because I couldn't justify the £700 outlay. I played 30 odd times at Spalding over the last membership year and enjoyed it but that meant that I gave up on all the other sports I loved.
Weekends are pretty much the only option for me but that's when all the other sports are too. I decided to get back into cricket and had fun. Because of family plans, holidays etc I could only play in 9 matches this year. So god knows just how little golf I would have manged. Luckily I can take the boys with me for the day as there is always space for them to play while I'm out chasing leather. Both kids play hockey and rugby at my club so they come down with me when I'm playing those.
Golf is a bit different in that I can't have my kids round with me yet (Give them 5 or 6 years and if they like the game then maybe). Time is a major factor when dealing with kids and their attention spans.
So I now find myself in the marginalised member bracket. I want to play more golf and would love to be a member but that would be throwing cash down the drain. I was sad to read the letter from the club saying that my membership was terminated but that I could reapply to join in the future but I couldn't be a slave to the game and I don't want to have to play golf just because I have spent the most on it.
I have also found myself wanting to play less now that I a playing more other sports and haven't had a game since June I think.
I will rejoin in the future but I believe that I fall into the age bracket where golf clubs are losing their most members and I can see why.
I would still love to maintain an active official handicap and play in opens etc. but that can't be done unless I am a member somewhere. That for me is a major drawback.
Shame really.