I hate to bring bad news.....it doesn't get any less frustrating as you get better.
It goes from...
''Why is it sometimes I play not bad then it all falls apart?''
''Why is it I play well for 17 holes but still have one 3 putt.''
My last amateur round was a satisfactory 2 under but the 3 putt bogey at the 3rd still grates 19 years later.
No 5 on the card though, that’s pretty sweet