Reemul
Head Pro
Another thing we did was ensure no single parent was the dominant one. We shared everything except the breast feeding. My boys never pick one over the other and view us as the same. we work very hard to never undermine each other and ensure we are both singing from the same hymn sheet. We also had the same with family who looked after them when the wife went back to work.
We have never had major behaviour issues (of course they can be naughty) as the message is the same all over, good , stable, loving guidelines that we stick to.
We have a few friends who have kids and one of the parents has little or no say and has a tendency to be ignored or they just ask the other parent until they get their own way.
Don't undermine each other, it is tough at first but working together makes it a hell of a lot easier in the short and long term.
We have never had major behaviour issues (of course they can be naughty) as the message is the same all over, good , stable, loving guidelines that we stick to.
We have a few friends who have kids and one of the parents has little or no say and has a tendency to be ignored or they just ask the other parent until they get their own way.
Don't undermine each other, it is tough at first but working together makes it a hell of a lot easier in the short and long term.