No Moderator that I saw was embarrassed about anything.
However as I said in my OP. I had to give out Infractions and 1 member did earn themselves a 7 day vacation.
The verbally abusing and insulting other members as well as the language used is unacceptable on the forum. The same goes for nastily abusing people via the Private Message system. Which is there for the privilege of contacting friends, not to launch attacks on others.