Bunkermagnet
Journeyman Pro
I can see your point, and have plenty of sympathy for it. However I would say that kids will always do what you say not to to one degree or another, and peer pressure can be even worse now with the instant out there of social media than when we were all growing up when social media was first class post.But on the spin of that, social media has made it easier for young people to become more aware of the dangers of these creatures, whereas before, it was just the word of your parents, who you didn't listen to much, well I didn't!
Social media can reach out to the quieter vulnerable children hopefully and educate them of these dangers if they're not in friendly circles, if you know what I mean.
An example of my first point is my youngest daughter when she was late teens. She had a boyfriend who was in my eyes very unpleasant, I didnt like him or trust him. What I didnt do was say anything to her about him that let her know my dislike of this lad. She always said he was pushy, and not long after she finished with him he raped a girl in an alley one night.
He duly got sent down, and when my daughter asked why I hadnt said anything about my dislike of him, I told her that I felt she would then probably have stuck with him longer and who knows what would have happened. She agreed that probably she would have done, just to go against what I said. She did feel very lucky though that she wasn't with him longer than she was.
I also consider her lucky too.