Your time again?

Bunkermagnet

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I grew up in the 70’s and early eighties. My dad, being born in ‘31 always used to say he wouldn’t want to be growing up at the time I was and wouldn’t want his time again. I always thought he was mad.
I find myself now saying the same things to both my daughters, who are mid and late 20’s.
Do you feel and think the same?
 

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Yep, totally.
When I started work if you wanted something you had to save to get it. I worked overtime Sat and Sunday to get my first bi ke. Think it gave me values that I think are rare toda y.
 

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I'd definitely have my time again. Lots of mistakes I'd like to have not made and seen where I end up had I not made them..

That being said there's still so much more I liked about growing up so tough to say
 
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I grew about late 70s but 80s/early 90s really.

Wouldn't really worry if I have to grow up now or before, as I would adapt, but certainly would not want to have my time again and make all the same(or very similar ones) painful mistakes again.
 

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There’s good a bad in every era. I love the technology out now and wouldn’t want to go back to a time that didn’t include iPads. But what about apprenticeships? In the mid-late 70’s it was possible to swap from one apprenticeship to another. How many apprenticeships are there around now?

I enjoyed growing up when I did, and there’s a few mistakes I’d like to put right but I’m not fussed in going back in time.
 

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I don't think there's loads I'd do differently, maybe one or two things, but I'd still do it all again. Even if I do everything the same. You get to live longer that way so it's a no-brainer.

Or if we're talking about eras, then no, I wouldn't want to be growing up now. The next generation won't be able to afford houses until they're about 50, and they'll retire when they're dead.
 

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Definitely would! Have made so many mistakes over the years that I'd like to change, as long as I could still have the same wife and kids I have now though.
 

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I havnt really made any big mistakes .
But life was easier in my youth.
It would be nice going back knowing what I know now.
I liked the simple life back in 70s roads virtually empty. Different problems I know.
Now everyone’s in such a hurry.
Feel sorry for young men ,how do they approach a woman without being accused of something ( Not all obviously)
There’s still so much poverty here ,it’s good for some people now but not all.
 

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If you were to grow up in the now you'd be totally different, you'd embrace everything that today has to offer and would adapt to it. Personally I'd love it.

If I could I'd only go back a few years to being born maybe early 70's rather than 77 as I'd loved to have experienced the late 80's/early 90's music scene. But I wouldn't change a lot as you learn from your mistakes and I didn't make that many really.
 

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There certainly were many charms of growing up in the 90s and into the early 2000s.

N64 was a highlight for sure, we still had mobiles and computers too but just a different view on what good graphics was.

I would trade if I could, our children should see wonders we could not even imagine.
 

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I played round Sunningdale with 3 members of the force from Woodhall Spa.

If I had my time again I’d join the Police at 18 as this year I would be retiring on a full pension to play golf for the next 20years rather than having to paste a smile on my face every morning and keep working 😆
 

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I went ot school in the 70's and out to work by 83. Plenty of mistakes made along the way but also a well lived life. Aside from never having the chance to pursue my original career plan (journalist) I don't think having too many regrets is healthy. Live each day to the full, and be the best person you can
 
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