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ok granted we havent had a holiday in 2 years, but i have just got off the phone with the misses about a holiday in august, please bare in mind im self employed which means closing my business for a week IE no income.

HID - " i wanna go somewhere hot, steaming hot "
ME - "ok, but im taking my clubs for atleast one game"
HID - " if we go for ten day ok, but if not no"
Me - " only one round and you can drive the buggy so your not at the hotel alone"
HID - " nope, 10 days or no golf "
Me - " ok f*** it, we'll go for a week and ill have a 3 day holiday with the lads somewhere else "

now given the fact ive just knocked back 5 days in spain golfing with a group of 15 lads because i know she derserves a break, who is being unrealistic.........
 

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I don't have conversations like that, but similar.

What makes me laugh is that it's something that can wait until you get home. Why ring when you're working. :D

Answering your question, I don't think you're being unreasonable. Does she know you missed out on the other trip?

Word has it there's a trip to Turkey in March 2012 :D
 

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now mine always says 'take your shoes, you may want a game'

however, you must <u>always</u> pay close attention to the tone with which it was said.

off to Tunisia at easter, and it just so happens that a course is very handily located practically next door - anyone know what club hire costs?
 

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Region she knows I was offered the trip and knows I declined as "we" needed a holiday, I may opt for turkey 2012 instead

Viscount, ah the old tone situation. It appears I'm "tone deaf" one said it's in stone
 

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I generally OK on holiday. As long as my wife has sun, a pool and a decent supply of coctails then she would not even notice if I was gone for 5 hours.
 

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She wants to go somewhere hot.
She wants 10 days or no golf.
She wants you to be at her beckon call for 7 days of your holiday and you dont get 1 game of golf.
I know what I would say.
 

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now mine always says 'take your shoes, you may want a game'

however, you must <u>always</u> pay close attention to the tone with which it was said.

off to Tunisia at easter, and it just so happens that a course is very handily located practically next door - anyone know what club hire costs?

Your not staying at the Houda Golf and Beach Hotel are you? And hoping to play Palm Links Golf course?

Andy
 

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I played last year in Mexico and she drove the cart. It was great having a caddy. She wasn't too impressed when on the third hole there was 2 crocodiles laying at the side of the fairway haha
 

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ok granted we havent had a holiday in 2 years, but i have just got off the phone with the misses about a holiday in august, please bare in mind im self employed which means closing my business for a week IE no income.

HID - " i wanna go somewhere hot, steaming hot "
ME - "ok, but im taking my clubs for atleast one game"
HID - " if we go for ten day ok, but if not no"
Me - " only one round and you can drive the buggy so your not at the hotel alone"
HID - " nope, 10 days or no golf "
Me - " ok f*** it, we'll go for a week and ill have a 3 day holiday with the lads somewhere else "

now given the fact ive just knocked back 5 days in spain golfing with a group of 15 lads because i know she derserves a break, who is being unrealistic.........

my favourite saying at the moment...."second word's off"
 

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It's all about give and take on holiday, I don't ask to play golf and she doesn't ask to sit in front of a telly in the hotel room or a bar watching her soaps. They, like golf, can wait for a few days until we get back then it's life as usual.
 

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It's all about give and take on holiday, I don't ask to play golf and she doesn't ask to sit in front of a telly in the hotel room or a bar watching her soaps. They, like golf, can wait for a few days until we get back then it's life as usual.

Never mixed family and golf holidays and it helps to understand that to a woman give & take means you give, they take, fact of life you just got to accept. ;) ;)
 

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Fortunately I have a wife who wouldn't ask the question. She quite likes doing her own thing and as cash is tight, the best we'll do this year are some long weekends. Now if I could combine that with a forum day (or as a guest of a forum member) HID would no doubt go off and do the historical bit she likes or visit some local attraction. As long as I was back to share an evening meal etc she'd be happy. Forget the lottery - I struck gold
 

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I've never played on holiday but do get grief for playing, and can certainly relate to the "tone in which it's said" comment!

I dont try and take the mick about playing, once a week, as we have got a baby but it annoys me, like i should feel guilty for doing something i enjoy!
 

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She wants to go somewhere hot.
She wants 10 days or no golf.
She wants you to be at her beckon call for 7 days of your holiday and you dont get 1 game of golf.
I know what I would say.

Yes Dear, Of course Dear???? :D
 

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She wants to go somewhere hot.
She wants 10 days or no golf.
She wants you to be at her beckon call for 7 days of your holiday and you dont get 1 game of golf.
I know what I would say.

On the forum : bolt ya silly mare
To her face. : Yes dear

:p :p
 

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Is there not something that she could do for 4 hours? Maybe spa or shopping? My wife is happy to chill by the pool with a book and a few beverages...
 
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