njt1986
Member
Kinda yeah and no for me. I think most of us would like to be totally relaxed and remain so when we make mistakes but that’s not real life
Sure it’s just a hobby & it’s not our job but your other hobbyists will get frustrated too;
someone who plays a musical instrument might get frustrated when they hit a d flat in practice but can’t do it when playing in front of their mates
someone who tinkers on a car might get frustrated when they forget to insert a washer back into an assembly when they know full well that the washer needs to go in
a painter might get frustrated when they mix the wrong colours together
When a golfer hits a bad shot it’s a mistake, just like the examples in other hobbies, that fact that our hobby is golf makes no difference. Make a mistake often enough in any hobby and many people will get frustrated
It just depends on you as a person really. I don't take it seriously, I don't take playing my guitar seriously either, it's just something to have fun with in my spare time. I enjoy cooking, but I make mistakes and burn things and mess up measurements constantly! I've lost count of the amount of times i've nearly given myself an impromptu colonic irrigation when i've misread the amount of Teaspoons of chilli needed in a dish as Tablespoons! But it's just something fun to do and to learn. And this is the key word that I see a lot of people missing - FUN. If your sole notion of what is fun is something being completely perfect, or only winning is fun, then that's fine, that's your own interpretation of fun, but it isn't mine. I would argue that I've had more fun and had more great experiences in my life so far from the mistakes i've made than the things i've done right.