While I 'liked' your post its safe to say there will be plenty of social media outlets discussing how much of a tragedy it is for a boy of 14 to be murdered, more still to offer sympathy and for some to remember the positive impact this child had on other people lives
But does that mean there can be no comments about the circumstances surrounding his murder (especially since to most of us it appears so abhorrent and out of kilter will normal life) but it's probably true to say no one on this forum will care enough about this poor lad to discuss this in a few weeks’ time after what might be seen as a suitable period of time has passed
If news reports are to be believed (and it’s a pity they all can’t be) the lad himself says he was a drugs courier which would support a theory of a targeted attack, and if true it’s likely that the bike was a big part in this, so authorities will be focusing on where it came from, why he was riding it etc and when & where did he go (all seemingly without the knowledge of any of his family)
Society will be (or at least should be) shocked and saddened that a 14 year old boy was stabbed to death and as part of that shock (& maybe to try to get any semblance of understanding) some will naturally want to ask questions about the events that seems out of sync with normal behavior for our society, which must include how & why is a 14yr old able to freely ride a bike illegally in one of the most observed cities in the world (cctv)
This child wasn’t killed walking to school or jogging to boxing training, he was stabbed after being knocked off a bike that society and the law says he should never have been on in the first place. Some people will want to believe if he hadn’t been on the bike then maybe, somehow this tragedy wouldn’t of happened. So in that context it seems natural for them to question ‘why’
I don’t disagree with any of that. My disappointment was in the “clumsy†way some viewed him as tarnished goods. Almost as though someone from that background isn’t really worth anything.
And I do wonder how the media and certain people would have reacted if he was an Eton toff?
At 14 he was very ‘recoverable’ and with the right guidance could have made valued contributions. It will have been a huge game to him and a massive boost to his ego to be so grown up and accepted by his peers.
But strip that all away and he was only a 14 year old child, loved by his family.
It will be forgotton in a week, and the cycle will be repeated. And on the back of that the goalposts of acceptance get moved further away from civility. How long before it’s accepted in schools, towns and villages, and how long before totally innocent children are caught up in it? Once upon a time it was the odd kid shop lifting, now it’s drugs mules. Where next? Gun battles and turf wars in school playgrounds?