Goodness, they are now insisting that poor old Jeremy kneels down in panto gear.
This is beginning to reach Blackadder script standards.
Not too unlike what trousers and shirts we have to wear at golf clubs. Not unlike what gear we have to wear out on the course. Not unlike what we have to wear to presentation nights. If we join a club we abide by the rules and change them from within. There's a dress code, and although it might be muppet-ish, its the code. The guy at your club that was out of step got how much support?
Rub someone up the wrong way, and they won't buy into your argument. Engage with them and you stand a chance.