SwingsitlikeHogan
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Various circumstances mean that I'll be able to pay off the mortgage next year. I was very lucky, but I was only able to buy my wee flat because my parents had a little bit of savings they could lend me for a deposit (I was supposed to pay them back - but as interest rates rocketed I never could - and they eventually just said to me to not bother)
And so with a very grateful nod to the generosity of my parents - who had little and sacrificed a lot for me - we will be putting a fair lump aside for our children to help them when they want to buy a place. We could spend it on ourselves - and have a great time in semi-retirement and retirement - but we feel a responsibility to help my children and will gladly make some sacrifices. Because without my parents I wouldn't be who and where I am today - and our life is made whole by our children.
So yes - I can look at how irresponsible and feckless my son has been - and occasionally still can be - but that's not the point. He and his sister are doing their very best as, in their early-mid 20s, they move into what will I fear be a difficult adult life. If we can help by relieving one serious pressure - a roof over their heads - then that's us doing our bit in return for what they give us. But they are among the very fortunate of their age group - many , many are not so.
And so with a very grateful nod to the generosity of my parents - who had little and sacrificed a lot for me - we will be putting a fair lump aside for our children to help them when they want to buy a place. We could spend it on ourselves - and have a great time in semi-retirement and retirement - but we feel a responsibility to help my children and will gladly make some sacrifices. Because without my parents I wouldn't be who and where I am today - and our life is made whole by our children.
So yes - I can look at how irresponsible and feckless my son has been - and occasionally still can be - but that's not the point. He and his sister are doing their very best as, in their early-mid 20s, they move into what will I fear be a difficult adult life. If we can help by relieving one serious pressure - a roof over their heads - then that's us doing our bit in return for what they give us. But they are among the very fortunate of their age group - many , many are not so.