Dellboy
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I can wear what ever I want, joys of being self employed.
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I work in a very backward looking industry (financial services in the City) where as a male if you came in wearing the following you would get roasted:
Short Sleeve shirt
Shirt with a pocket
Single cuffs
anything other than an English vented suit jacket
Less than 4 buttons on suit sleeves
Brown shoes
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As long as I don't spoil my pupils I can wear absolutely anything I like!
Wow.
If not complying would it be "looked down upon", or would it be taken aside for a word?
21st century eh.
If this happened nowadays then surely the victim would be suing the company for thousands upon thousands. And they'd win.Yep we have about 100 odd years to go before we reach the 21st century
You do have a dress code of business wear and provided that you stick to that you won't be had a word with by any powers that be but what actually happens is for example a young chap will turn up at work wearing something perfectly suitable but non conformist such as brown shoes a short sleeved shirt a waistcoat or any of the other items referred to in my earlier post. A few supercilious idiots will then rip the hell out of them for days. They will call it just banter but it's not its far worse than that. The young chap will then comply.
It is not as bad as it was in the 80s or 90s as I have heard stories of Pockets being physically ripped off shoes being painted black and ties being snipped. Whilst these are stories I wouldn't be surprised if they did actually happen.
Bullying is something I abhor and unfortunately up in the City it is rife and in many forms you have a lot of people who only have a flashy suit to offer.
If this happened nowadays then surely the victim would be suing the company for thousands upon thousands. And they'd win.
Used to work in Just my underkrackers and boots in the heat.
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Same here, back in the day, working in darkrooms...
The handful of ladies, working elsewhere in the building, were advised to avoid the corridors adjacent to the rooms we worked in...
Not all of my co-workers had the Adonis like body I had...
Going for the Donald Duck / Winnie the Pooh look?Working from home today so nice smart polo shirt ...... and nothing else :lol:
I once had a temping job in a dark room. Deep underground, it was for a photographic film company. They spent all morning showing me what to do, went through what was needed, all with the lights on. Fine, cup of tea at 11 and off I went on my own. Down the bunker, shut the door, lights off. 5 seconds later, panic attack, sweating buckets, nearly passed out. Went up top, never went back down. Not for me that one![]()
Secondly, (related to your post) - I went to that dark restaurant in London (where its in pitch black and the waiters are blind etc) and had the same thing as you. I lasted probably less than 10 minutes before I had a full blown panic attack and was escorted out..... that experience now affects me in more aspects of life and has really changed me. I just remember sitting there and getting worked up and realising that even if I wanted to get out of there at all costs that I couldn't do it without assistance as I didnt know where anything was. Frightened the life out of me not being in control.
Maybe they are on there way home after a sweaty night at work.. But when it's January, and someone has body odour at 7am at the train station, I do ask a few questions internally then. Questions like, surely a decent deodorant wouldn't let you down that early, might be time to change brand? :lol: