Swango1980
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Thanks. So I'm thinking DQ to both only applies if the player was actually happy to apply the penalty (i.e indicated they'd apply it), and then didn't after the opponent said they'd ignore it? At that point, it is then obvious the player was influenced by the opponent in coming to a different outcome.As I see it:
1. The matter ended when the opponent decided to ignore the breach and they moved on. Whether he is told immediately, later in the round, in the bar afterwards or never, there is nothing for the player to do (apart, perhaps, from buying his opponent a pint).
2. The opponent has chosen to ignore the breach. There is no penalty for the player to apply.
Of course, it probably doesn't matter in virtually all cases anyway. If both players agree to something, they'll just get on with things and be none the wiser. Only if a referee, or 3rd party was present to witness the conversation, would the players ever be DQed for any well intentioned discussion to ignore a breach.
Years ago I had a mixed match against a lady very high up and recognised in England Golf. When addressing the ball in a bunker, I accidentally grounded my club. I called it immediately, and asked what the penalty was. She was very nice about it, and said not to worry about it, so we all just moved on and had a good round of golf (we got thrashed). Strictly, I'm thinking if this happened today (and maybe back then), we both would be technically DQed