PJ87
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The first time I was invited to a non Sikh wedding and there was little poem at the bottom asking for cash instead of gifts I was blown away. I couldn't believe what I was reading, just wasn't used to seeing something like that. I of course was going to take a gift but was just shocked to be asked for one.
We put in a poem about cash,
We had lived together for a year before getting married (old days never happened) which meant we had everything we needed pots, pans etc
So put in a poem and said we were using the cash towards our honeymoon
Apparently my Nan thought was lovely ? so that was enough for me