dufferman
Journeyman Pro
I think you have hit the nail on the head there. You are a bit common and find it hard to fit into an environment where there are rules governing courtesy to others.
Perhaps best to just go with the flow and do as you are told?
The thread is about clubs stuck in the 19th Century. Not allowing mobile phones, to me, seems like a very 19th Century thing. As I mentioned earlier, being 25, technology like mobile phones are just part of my daily life, like they are for 99% of 25 year olds in the UK.
I also use the Golfshot GPS app on my phone to give me distances from the center of the green when out on the course. I use it to record my scores for a round, rather than keeping hoards of score cards in a box under my bed. Having a mobile phone has become and integral part of my game.
Sitting in clubhouse, minding my own business, sending or receiving a text message or two, I'm not hurting anyone. Yes, my phone is on silent. I understand that having a ridiculous ringtone will grind peoples gears. I respect that. All I said was, when people ask you to put your phone away, when you're not causing a scene, or being loud and obnoxious, it feels a little dated.
I play a few courses regularly, and have never had a problem. At Hillingdon Golf club where I was asked to put my phone away, the Captain made a speech at the yearly carol concert fund raiser about bringing new members to the club. It is strange to think that clubs like this want new members, but have rules that push young people like myself away. Bit of a catch 22.