Capella
Journeyman Pro
I totally understand what you mean. I remember when I had my first or second lesson with Peter Finch. He was like: "Try to keep your backswing shorter. Maybe do just a half swing." And I tried, and it felt like I was hardly taking a backswing at all. And when I saw myself on the video it was still way above my head and beyond parallel. I really had to slow my backswing down massively to get it controlled to a point where I actually felt where my club was.