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Grand Slam Winner
I assumed this post would be about Wengers new contract.
No, because like Martin says, there's a difference between changing and putting on a public face, or simply 'making an effort'.
People around me say I've changed loads, but I know it's more about making the effort to change and how you would like to be perceived, because real change I think is difficult if not impossible as it's in your genes and there will always be that real you inside, it just may take something a little greater or worse to get it to show it's ugly face now than it did before!
I do feel better in what I try to do now and how I present myself to others, but I know also that I have the ability to throw it all away in a heartbeat, is that change, or just better control?!
At the weekend my wife and grown up kids told me that I am far less grumpy than I was a few years ago. Probably an age thing or perhaps it is about accepting life for what it is.
There's no apostrophe in 'heros' (plural)
It's a little of column A and a little of Column B. You learn better control and you also learn from your mistakes. I know what I was like as I grew up. A spoilt brat, then a petulant youth and then a fiery temper in my twenties. Nothing vicious (apart from the tongue) but for a lot of people who know me now would say I'm very easy going. That's because I've learnt from what I did. I've bitten my tongue more and learnt to reel it in. Some people are naturally easy going/kind/generous, others have to work at it.No, because like Martin says, there's a difference between changing and putting on a public face, or simply 'making an effort'.
People around me say I've changed loads, but I know it's more about making the effort to change and how you would like to be perceived, because real change I think is difficult if not impossible as it's in your genes and there will always be that real you inside, it just may take something a little greater or worse to get it to show it's ugly face now than it did before!
I do feel better in what I try to do now and how I present myself to others, but I know also that I have the ability to throw it all away in a heartbeat, is that change, or just better control?!
Never thought Shakespere would appear on the forum.Yup - acceptance is crucial. Life is full of problems, but we can learn to suffer the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune as that life is just life. And in that acceptance our life can be more level.
There's another clever reply from the caring sharing north of the border.Saville is now quickly overtaking Hitler in the 'people we compare others to in order to make a (poor) point'