Fair enough. I suppose it must be coincidence that his most recent posts are all derogatory to BAME people (x3) straight after the comments I called out when maybe he might have been a bit more considered. ??
Whether he admits it or not, for whatever he reason it is my opinion he has a problem with people from a BAME background. All surprisingly unchallenged by mods who seem more keen to ensure threads are 'on track' rather than content of posters.
I get why people wish to jump to defence of those they know. It's the fear of guilt by association. It's also a lot tougher to call out unsavoury behaviour if the person is humanised (i.e. you know them) , hence my comment around first naming, as whether consciously or not that was why you included his name. From your posts I've read it's clear your values are significantly different ??
