Jimaroid
Journeyman Pro
Don't get too disheartened, there are definitely opportunities out there if you plug away at it but time is indeed the enemy. If you focus on a specific area of industry it could help. Something else to think about is that software development companies need IT support too. Have a look around at some specific companies or industries that interest you and see if they're looking for people, you might find more of a sideways approach into development that way.