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Women playing with men

I could not give a toss if it was Jordan, I go to golf to get away from women, Why do they have this massive desire to do everything men do, I have no desire to go home and start ironing and vacuuming the house. Can we not have one thing away from them for a few hours a week? If you go to the rugby..some idiot has taken them with them, same at the footy, horse racing is full of them strutting around in hats, what is wrong with wanting to get away from them for a little while?
Jordan would have a dreadful swing ;)
 
I could not give a toss if it was Jordan, I go to golf to get away from women, Why do they have this massive desire to do everything men do, I have no desire to go home and start ironing and vacuuming the house. Can we not have one thing away from them for a few hours a week? If you go to the rugby..some idiot has taken them with them, same at the footy, horse racing is full of them strutting around in hats, what is wrong with wanting to get away from them for a little while?

Im sorry drawboy but you need to read this post over and realise how behind you are in society, and more importantly take a long hard look at yourself as this kind of talk belongs in the 1800's... women are rightfully equal to men, if it was a coloured person that was enforced on the group would you post on here saying how wrong it is? I think not, its the same principle with women, why should they be treated differently? If you honestly believe they are inferior to you (which is what your post suggests) and that they should not decide who they play with then you are a disgrace
 
I could not give a toss if it was Jordan, I go to golf to get away from women, Why do they have this massive desire to do everything men do, I have no desire to go home and start ironing and vacuuming the house. Can we not have one thing away from them for a few hours a week? If you go to the rugby..some idiot has taken them with them, same at the footy, horse racing is full of them strutting around in hats, what is wrong with wanting to get away from them for a little while?

Get yourself up Hampstead Heath after dark then. You'll find nothing but men there.

Apparently........ :clap:
 
I could not give a toss if it was Jordan, I go to golf to get away from women, Why do they have this massive desire to do everything men do, I have no desire to go home and start ironing and vacuuming the house. Can we not have one thing away from them for a few hours a week? If you go to the rugby..some idiot has taken them with them, same at the footy, horse racing is full of them strutting around in hats, what is wrong with wanting to get away from them for a little while?

DB. If you are serious, and I'm inclined to believe that you are, then you should find a Men Only club or restrict yourself to playing with men at Munis. The fact that you have joined a mixed club means you have accepted the mixed nature of golf - in spite of your ridiculous prejudice. Or perhaps take up (Village?) Cricket!

And I agree, Jordan would have great difficulty swinging (a golf club) properly!
 
I am all for equality in life but it just doesent exist ingolf.

Women play a different course up there from the reds. Why not make everybody play from the whites in comps and let the handicap system take care of things.

How there are mixed commps i will never know. Huge yardage differences and the par of the course can be 2 or 3 shots different. And then there is the courtesy shot, whats that all about.

Its like me playing monopoly and a woman playing scrabble then trying to figure out who won
 
I am all for equality in life but it just doesent exist ingolf.

Women play a different course up there from the reds. Why not make everybody play from the whites in comps and let the handicap system take care of things.

How there are mixed commps i will never know. Huge yardage differences and the par of the course can be 2 or 3 shots different. And then there is the courtesy shot, whats that all about.

Its like me playing monopoly and a woman playing scrabble then trying to figure out who won
oh dear, sorry we dont have the same muscle structure as men.

Maybe the olympics will just throw all the competitors out in mixed groups too. should make for interesting 100 metre races and shot putting

are you boys serious?!
 
I am all for equality in life but it just doesent exist ingolf.

Women play a different course up there from the reds. Why not make everybody play from the whites in comps and let the handicap system take care of things.

How there are mixed commps i will never know. Huge yardage differences and the par of the course can be 2 or 3 shots different. And then there is the courtesy shot, whats that all about.

Its like me playing monopoly and a woman playing scrabble then trying to figure out who won

There is no such thing as "courtesy" shots. If a woman plays from the men's card (therefore men's SSS and Stroke Index) then the equalisation between the SSS of the Reds v Whites is the adjustment. It's not rocket science.
 
Yeah throw them all in together but some get a head start and some only have to run three quarters of the race.

Just saying women and men play a different game so why try to complicate things by trying to mix it up.
 
net72 ... there's a very good reason why women play from forward tees and it's because they don't carry the ball so far through the air as men so simply adjusting a h'cap wouldn't work for the simple reason the women wouldn't be able to make the carries from any of the mens' tees.

Mind you, I was watching some of the girls at Curtis Cup training recently and not only were they playing from white tees but also the occasional blue one!
Nevertheless, notwithstanding elite amateurs, the vast majority of female gofers would struggle to make carries from anything further back than the red tees.

To the poster who clearly doesn't have any grasp of golf history, women have been playing this game since the time of Catherine of Aragon (one of Henry VIII's wives). Indeed, Mary Queen of Scots was a very keen devotee of the game. It was the club system which largely denied women fair and equitable access to the game.
 
Its comments like this from the original poster that puts golf back 50 years

I wish more women would play and they should be made welcome to play mixed games

And as for the comment somebody made about taking a leak, if you cannot play golf for 4 hours without going to the toilet then you have medical issues me thinks or should wear trainer pants like my kids did when they were coming out of nappies.

Come on guys get real its dinasaur comments like his that hurts the game and puts people off young and old.
 
Just read this thread through and have to say it's right up there with the "They wouldn't let me through so I drove through 'em" thread.

A very balanced viewpoint DB.........balanced as in having a chip on both shoulders!
 
Just saying women and men play a different game so why try to complicate things by trying to mix it up.

Dangerous to generalise. On average, you're correct however many women play better golf and hit the ball further than many men. So you can't just claim this is about ability.

Personally, I'd love the opportunity to play a mixed comp off the whites. I wouldn't win but I'd be a long way from last. Not sure the majority of the ladies would fancy it though.
 
Think DB is now on a bit of a wind up mission... A few have taken the bait nicely ;)...

And if he is not 'aving a giraffe... So what!

Should be a bit of captain caveman in every red blooded male... Herself tells me its one of my more attractive traits :D...

I'll happily play a round of golf with anyone as long as they aren't full of themselves and don't use a mobile device on course...
 
Think DB is now on a bit of a wind up mission... A few have taken the bait nicely ;)...

And if he is not 'aving a giraffe... So what!

Should be a bit of captain caveman in every red blooded male... Herself tells me its one of my more attractive traits :D...

I'll happily play a round of golf with anyone as long as they aren't full of themselves and don't use a mobile device on course...

I really hope it is a wind up as I do find the attitude very strange in this day and age.
 
I do not see the problem with ladies playing at my club. My mates girlfriend has just taken up the game and joined my club and so has my girlfriend. We are both looking forward to it.

Regarding joining the Tuesday/Thursday swindle at my club may cause a slight problem. It is played in 3-balls 3/4 handicap, with the best 2 scores of 3 to count and all 3 counting on the 9th and 18th. Not sure how having ladies playing a course with a different stroke indexing and par could affect the outcome of any group that included a lady though. If it is not going to have a major effect on the outcome then why not let them play.

There are a few ladies in my club who could show a majority of men on this site how to play golf, seeing as some of them have cat 1 handicaps. Also the ladies at my glub have now got through to the final stages of the Daily Mail, so there are some good players of the female persuasion in my club. But with it having a ladies section of about 80 members I do not see them ever being bothered about playing in the mens comps.
 
Dangerous to generalise. On average, you're correct however many women play better golf and hit the ball further than many men. So you can't just claim this is about ability.

Personally, I'd love the opportunity to play a mixed comp off the whites. I wouldn't win but I'd be a long way from last. Not sure the majority of the ladies would fancy it though.
I'm up for it. I often have to hit 3 off the tee from the whites in foursomes when the old man shhhhh's one out of bounds. I've often had the longer drive too ;)

men seem to talk about the 'whites' as if they are some scary thing - its only a few yards! bring it on!
 
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