Who is your first true love

[Tashyboy]

Been out today/tonight with the lads and ladies from the local RBL. Had a stonker. Bladdered. anyway conversation got round to when I was a lad going to college ( west Notts tech). I was on day release every Friday for three years. Anyway, sister in law who I knew fancied me before I met Missis T told me the girls used to " check out the lads ". And I was towards top of the list. Nowt new there, but she said I was eyed up by quite a few girls and was"wanted". 😁Always felt Missis T was punching above her weight.
So who was your first true love.

 

[Deleted member 21784]

My wife. Everyone else was just infatuation or lust.

I should add here we have been together 7 years, married 3 in the summer

I’m 32 she’s 31 so most of adult life 😂

 

[Tashyboy]

My wife. Everyone else was just infatuation or lust.

Oddly enough your answer is mine, and without dropping an anchor I mean my wife and not yours 😁👍

 

[Deleted member 18645]

Clare Grogan

 

[CliveW]

Strange question. I notice the title is "Who Is Your First True Love." and not Who Was Your First True Love? Do any of us still love our First Love?

 

[Pin-seeker]

Strange question. I notice the title is "Who Is Your First True Love." and not Who Was Your First True Love? Do any of us still love our First Love?

Think that was more because Tashy was bladdered 😂

 

[Tashyboy]

Think that was more because Tashy was bladdered 😂

Definately was. Had a fantastic evening, talking to sis in law. I knew she fancied the pants off me when I started going out with Missis T. But I never knew until last night that when I went to west Notts tech every Friday on day release, the girls were rating the lads from the pits when we went in the canteen. It seems more than a few had the hots for Me. Which was understandable. She asked me " did I not do the same as in eyeing up the girls". Nope I was more focused on whether to have a pie or a sausage cob for me breakfast.

 

[Bazz]

Wolverhampton Wanderers

 

[robinthehood]

Oddly enough your answer is mine, and without dropping an anchor I mean my wife and not yours 😁👍

I struggle to understand your posts at best of times, but WTF is dropping an anchor, outside of the obvious..

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[robinthehood]

I struggle to understand your posts at best of times, but WTF is dropping an anchor, outside of the obvious..

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DW.


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[jim8flog]

A girl I met at the age of 16 and went out with for 18 months and I still miss her even 50 years later.

One of the things I learnt about love is that is possible to be 'truly' madly' deeoly with two people at the same time.

Luckily I had a very understanding second true love, my wife, who knew exactly how I felt about my first.

 

[Bunkermagnet]

Strange question. I notice the title is "Who Is Your First True Love." and not Who Was Your First True Love? Do any of us still love our First Love?

Yes, my wife of 33 years.
Met her when I was 14, married at 20 and still happily so

 

[pokerjoke]

My first true love was Tracy Rudd.
When I was 21 I lived in a flat on the 3rd floor,opposite was her house.
I was blind as a bat back then and I was looking out my window when her and her sister was walking up the road towards her house,I shouted down “would she like to go out” and to my surprise she said yes straight away.

We went out together for 7 years moved in together after 2 years.
I loved her she was a stunner,however she wanted to get married and have a kid but at the time I didn’t.
Eventually that decision made us drift apart.
She then got with a guy and they had a kid pretty quick.
I must say it broke my heart.
Eventually they broke up and some years later she came to work in the factory I worked at and wanted me back but the damage was done.
She moved to Florida when her mum died quite young to live with her Auntie.

August this year she is coming back to Ilfracombe for 2 weeks,me my wife,her with her husband are going on a boat trip with many others for a reunion.
Really looking forward to seeing her again as we are still very good friends.

 

[Hobbit]

!975 & '76. Got on really well with a young lass as we worked our way through our Highers. We were great friends but both a little shy. At an end of year party it looked like we were about to cross the line from good friends to boyfriend/girl friend. Cue younger sister to get too drunk and had to be taken home by the potential love of my life.

Maybe it was never meant to be as the following week I flew to the UK for a summer job before going straight onto uni. She went off to a different uni.

Purely by chance, at the Christmas break we were both walking across a bridge in opposite directions and spotted other at more or less the same instant. The look of joy on her face just about had my heart leaping out of my chest. We stood and talked for what seems forever. Then went for a coffee, and onto a bar. What a fab evening but it never went beyond that and, sadly, we never met again. No mobiles back then and being in different countries making calls was a non-starter for poor students.

Down the years I often wondered what became of her... life moves on I guess.

About 4 years ago I was back in the old country on business. As the town I grew up in wasn't far from the office I booked a hotel there and contacted a couple of guys I hadn't seen in 40 years. We met up for a beer and a good old reminisce. They were best buddies and it was like we'd last seen each other the week before, not 40 years ago. One of the guys asked what was the name of the girl you had the hots for but never got to first base. He was on a bit of a wind up and knew which button to press.

We bantered away on lost loves and what a great time we'd had. And then he dropped the bombshell, but was it a wind up. "You broke her heart mate. She asked the guys if anyone had an address or contact number but you'd vanished." My parents had also moved countries too. And the final twist he threw, "she had the odd boyfriend, nothing serious, but she never married. She was at a school reunion a few years before and asked if you might be coming."

I did a bit of digging, courtesy of Google. Company CEO, never married, involved in a few charities and coached at the local football club. Aged a little, looking at the photograph but still a looker. I never took it any further than that. Too dangerous.

 

[HomerJSimpson]

Met a girl at my first ever job out of school. I fancied her something rotten and we had a fling for a while but it was mainly an unrequited love story. She turned up as a temp when I was working at another company and we did get it together for a bit but in the end it wasn't to be. Met my wife on a blind date and so glad I did. We are soul mates and I've known here for 27 years and have loved every single day of it

 

[Orikoru]

Would have to say the wife. Met her almost ten years ago when I was 23, and prior to that I'd only had one proper relationship that wasn't even comparable really since it only lasted a few months.

 

[Deleted member 21258]

Only one really, my wife from the age of 17, so lucky as she is so nice and pure in her thoughts. Almost the opposite of me. A perfect match. Heres to many more years with your current loves.

I do remember my first girlfriend aged 9, so to call that true love would be a bit of an over statement Her nickname was miss piggy but did see her many years later in a shop that she was working for, she was very pretty but I went on my way and didn't see much point to say hello.

 

[chrisd]

I'm not risking 44 years of married bliss (for her) with an answer!

 

[nickjdavis]

My first love (the world is going to swallow me up and eat me if she ever dumps me sort of love) lives about 3 miles from me now. Nothing obviously unusual in that except for the fact that we both live over 200 miles away from where we did when we first met over 30 years ago.

 

[Deleted member 1418]

My first pair of Adidas Copa Mundials - just a wonderful football boot; the softest kangaroo leather and still the benchmark for me.